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Supplementing with Formula

Let’s talk about supplementing. It’s way more common than you think. Supplementing is a fact of life for many mommas, but can also be the key to prolonging your pumping journey!
How? Read on to find out:
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What is “supplementing?”

Let’s start with the basic idea of supplementing. When the breastfeeding community talks about “supplementing,” we are referring to something that is adding to your infant’s diet of breastmilk to fill any nutritional gaps. We also call this “combo feeding.” This is most commonly referring to supplementing a lowered supply of breastmilk with formula, but can mean supplementing with donor milk, solid foods when the baby is older, or even nutritional supplements like vitamins and minerals prescribed by your child’s pediatrician. For this blog post, we are going to focus on supplementing with formula.

Coming to terms with supplementing

The need to supplement can leave mommas feeling guilty about not being able to provide a complete diet of breastmilk for their baby. I get it, I’ve been there. Keep in mind, even if you can’t provide 100% breastmilk for your baby, they are still getting 100% of the benefits of your breastmilk. Read that again, because it’s true. That amount still matters. (For example, did you know that one teaspoon of breastmilk contains up to 3 million germ-killing cells? Wow!) Still, it can be hard to start supplementing. There can be feelings of failure. There can be feelings of guilt and grief. Let yourself feel your feelings, because they matter. Then, try reframing your mindset about supplementing. Formula was scientifically designed to help infants thrive. A mindset shift that helped me personally was this: Soon, there will be lots of things your baby will eat that you didn’t personally create with your body. Do you give yourself a hard time because you can’t create bananas, bread, or broccoli with your body? Of course not! Just group formula in with all the new foods that will nourish your baby.
I promise, there are so many silver linings to supplementing!

The benefits of supplementing

  • Supplementing can help improve baby’s bilirubin levels to combat jaundice.
  • Supplementing can help while a momma is actively working with a lactation professional to improve nursing or pumping.
  • Supplementing under a doctor’s guidance can help a baby who is struggling with weight gain.
  • Supplementing helps a momma with low supply keep offering breastmilk.
  • Supplementing can help mommas reach their breast pumping goal.
  • Supplementing can help momma ease up on her pumping schedule and potentially pump longer than anticipated because it feels more sustainable!
  • By combo-feeding, you can ensure baby is still getting the benefits of your breastmilk, no matter what amount you are able to provide. Think of it as the most personalized vitamin you can give them!

Keep in mind…

  • Replacing a feed with formula can negatively affect your supply if you aren’t pumping in place of a nursing session.
  • If you are supplementing while “waiting for your milk to come in,” you should be actively working to bring on the next stage of lactation by regularly pumping or nursing to bring on that mature milk.
  • If you are separated from baby, it is wise to pump every 3 hours to protect your supply.
  • It is always advised to work closely with a lactation professional to meet your feeding goals.
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What should I supplement with?

Ideally, supplementing with breastmilk would be “best.” Using your own freezer stash of milk would be great, but that’s not feasible for everyone. Supplementing with donor milk would also be great, but can be extremely pricey to purchase from milk banks. Some mommas are able to link up with family or a trusted friend who are willing and able to donate breastmilk. Others find local mommas on a HumanMilk4HumanBabies or EatsOnFeets facebook groups, both of which are considered “informal” mother-to-mother milk donation platforms that do not screen their donors like milk banks do.
If breastmilk is not available, your other choice is to supplement with formula. Despite clever marketing, there is no formula brand that matches the nutritional composition of breastmilk, it’s just not possible. Before buying a large amount of formula, I suggest seeing if your baby takes it without argument/difficulty. If you need a specialty kind, work with your pediatrician to find the ingredients best for your baby’s unique needs. My colleague Erin, the “Baby Feeding Coach” has a great page on understanding a formula label HERE. For a deeper dive, trust my friend Bridget Young, PhD, the “Baby Formula Expert” advice found HERE.

How do I supplement with formula?

There are many ways to use formula in supplementary feeding. Some mommas choose a specific time of day, such as nighttime feeding by a helpful partner, or when their baby is at daycare. Some pumpers alternate feeds between breastmilk bottles and formula bottles. Another choice is to offer a partial feed of breastmilk and supplement the rest with formula. Some mommas choose to do this with two separate bottles, or feeding the breastmilk first, then putting formula in the empty breastmilk bottle to finish the feed. Others choose to mix the formula and breastmilk together in one feeding bottle.
Try easing into formula introduction when baby is in a good mood. An overly tired or hungry baby is in no mood to try something new. Once you know that baby will accept the bottle of formula, you can gradually increase how much you offer them.

Can I mix breastmilk and formula?

The short answer is yes. Yes, you can mix breastmilk and formula as long as it is done safely. Breastmilk should never replace the water used to mix up powdered formula. If you plan to mix breastmilk and formula, prepare the formula as directed, and then add breastmilk to it. According to Dr. Bridget Young, there is evidence of proteases (enzymes that break down protein) in breastmilk helping to digest the proteins in formula, which can result in easier digestion for baby. This will happen if you feed the breastmilk and formula in the same bottle, or back-to-back in the same feeding.
Are there any reasons NOT to mix breastmilk and formula? You should be sure your baby does not reject the formula you are offering. If they reject the bottle, you may be wasting that liquid gold (a.k.a your precious breastmilk!) Another reason is that once baby has started feeding from a formula bottle, you need to use it within an hour. With breastmilk, that rule is use within 2 hours.

Storing prepared formula

Once prepared, formula should be used within 24 hours. Mommas who prepare a pitcher of formula in advance should use the formula within 24 hours. If baby begins to drink from the bottle, it is advised to use that bottle within 1 hour, without putting it back in the fridge to save for later in the day.

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Surprising things I did while my baby was in the NICU

You don’t know what you don’t know… you know?
I’d never known anyone who had a baby in the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) and I certainly didn’t plan on having a baby need the NICU… so it was uncharted territory for us. With September being NICU Awareness Month, I’ve been reflecting on my experience and found some of it surprising! While most of the blog posts here at Pump Momma Pump are designed as helpful guides, this post is more of a reflection of my own experience. But hey… if you’re a NICU momma or a new mom in general, some of it may resonate!

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Born a month early, my son aced the APGAR test right away but quickly developed jaundice and needed to spend 2 weeks in the NICU gaining the stamina and skills to nurse or bottle feed. During those two weeks, I did some pretty curious things… and didn’t do some things people would assume I should do.

Surprising things I did while he was in the NICU

Go grocery shopping

On the way home from the hospital, we went grocery shopping. I remember slowly shuffling through the store, careful not to disturb my painful stitches from my perineal tear. Why didn’t I go home to rest and send my husband? Or at least wait in the car? Silly of me. Hind site really is 20/20, isn’t it!

Bake a cake for my mother in law

Like what the actual…? I distinctly remember that my mother-in-law was coming to stay for a few days, so I thought I should bake a cake. Me. The one who just had a baby a few days ago… Like, what?! Why didn’t someone bake a cake for me? I’m still sore about that.
(My mother in law and I have a fabulous relationship, by the way…. still.)

Build a crib

I was in no condition to build a crib (okay, well, assemble a crib) Who let me do that?

Get a pedicure

A to-do list item in that last month before baby’s arrival was to get a pedicure. Since he arrived early, this didn’t happen in time. My husband even went with me! (though he didn’t get polish, lol) It felt indulgent at the time, but I am glad we did it! It was a nice distraction from the stress of the NIC

– Went to a rummage sale

Looking back on photos for this post, I just saw a picture of my mom and me at our local rummage sale. Totally forgot about that! I remember now, that my mom and I visited my son in the NICU, then went to Panera for lunch, and shopped at the rummage sale. I even have a necklace on?! Boy I was really livin’ it up! Why didn’t someone make me stay in bed? *shakes head* tsk tsk.

– Go on a date

We figured, heck… our baby’s not home yet, let’s get one last date night in while we can! We went to a local brewery and I got the best burger and fries, before rushing home to pump! This was 2 weeks postpartum, so I was not quite as sore. 5/5 would recommend.

Had a sleepover with my husband in the NICU!

Our NICU had a “family room” right in the unit, which looked kinda like a hotel room with ensuite bathroom. You were allowed to test out your first night with baby before taking them home- it was really cool! The nurses didn’t even bother you all night unless you needed their assistance.

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Surprising things I didn’t do while he was in the NICU

I didn’t take any videos

Our NICU had a strict no-phones policy. I broke it a few times to snap a quick pic of our little one, but we definitely didn’t have time to sneak a whole video! I really wish we would have just closed the curtain and did it anyway! Ah well.

– I barely held my baby

99% of the time during our NICU visits I was pumping or cleaning pump parts. Greg did all the baby holding! For some reason we didn’t stick around… we did baby care, pumping, and feeding, and then went home. Having a baby still felt very surreal to me, especially a NICU baby. I didn’t get that initial bond that many others get. I hear about mommas staying all day to snuggle and even read to their babies, and I still give myself grief over not doing this.

Didn’t see a lactation consultant

I saw three different ones back in the maternity ward before he landed himself in the NICU, but they just tried to help nurse, and didn’t even mention pumping. It was a NICU nurse who taught me how to pump and gave me the tough love I needed to get and stay on a strict pumping schedule. Exclusive pumping worked so well for my family that even when my baby gained the stamina to nurse, we kept right on bottle feeding.

I didn’t change diapers

My husband, who had never held a baby, let alone change any diapers, got thrust into baby care right away. He’s thankful for it! We say the NICU was like, “How to parent 101 class.” They taught us how to feed, burp, change, and bathe our son… all of which I already knew how to do, but was a brand new experience for my husband!

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A message for NICU mommas

If you currently have a baby in the NICU, or may have one in the future, here’s a heartfelt message from me to you:
Your baby’s NICU stay is not your fault. I never understood why people would think it was, but this guilt can creep in anyway. You did nothing wrong. Feel your feelings, but don’t allow guilt to be one of them. Your baby is simply getting the help they need to thrive once they go home with you.
Your baby is in the best possible place for them… right now. You have knowledgeable, experienced doctors and compassionate nurses caring for your sweet little one, alongside you and any family members there with you. It’s a team effort.
You need care too. After all, you just had a baby! Make sure that you are getting enough to eat and drink, and give your body the rest it needs to heal while you wait for your baby to come home.
Build your support system. Now is the time to call upon that church meal train, hire or ask someone to help with tasks around the house, make an appointment with a therapist, or join support groups online to find mommas who have been in similar shoes. The more you feel supported, the better.
And lastly…. have grace with yourself. Let yourself feel whatever you’re feeling, whenever you feel it. There is no right or wrong way to react to having a baby in the NICU. Hang in there, momma.

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Why Are Hospital Lactation Consultants So Bad?

I was asked this question today in a DM over on Instagram, and I’ll admit… it’s not the first time I’ve had a bewildered mother ask a similar question. Since Pump Momma Pump attracts mommas who pump, most are coming to seek pumping-specific answers they haven’t found elsewhere. Many times, all the experience they’ve had with lactation professionals is with the one who came to see them in the hospital after giving birth, if that. And I’ve found that most of those experiences were bad. But… Why?

I’d love to admit that the title of the blog was easy click-bait, but unfortunately I hear it frequently. So frequently, in fact, that I felt the question was worth devoting a blog post to. Have you yourself had a bad experience with hospital lactation staff? This post is for you! I hope that by the end, you understand why we hear this complaint so often, and hopefully, you leave feeling a bit more gracious toward them.

* No place for hate *

This is actually NOT a roast post. As a CLC myself, I cannot write a blog post promoting a negative view about fellow lactation professionals, especially ones that have higher credentials and more experience. It is not ethical and goes against the principles of respect and inclusion. We all know that lactation consultants play a crucial role in assisting mothers with breastfeeding and ensuring that the baby is receiving the best nutrition and care possible. They are trained and certified professionals who provide support and guidance to both the mother and baby during the breastfeeding journey. It is important to give credit where it is due and respect the professionals who work hard every day to ensure that mothers and their babies are healthy and happy. The point of this post is to acknowledge the elephant in the room and leave with a greater understanding of why women might not have gotten the specific help they needed.

Maybe you’re only hearing the bad stuff

First, let’s talk about why we hear this complaint so frequently. We usually hear more about what goes wrong than what goes right, right? Think of all the mommas who had a smooth start to their breastfeeding journey…. you don’t always hear those stories. In fact, some mommas feel guilty admitting how well things went, especially around someone who’s had a rough time. Misery loves company. It can feel comforting knowing you’re not the only one struggling, so we talk about our pain points to know we’re not alone.

Staffing and scheduling issues

I’d wager that most hospitals are understaffed. Lactation professionals (I don’t always say IBCLC because many hospitals allow professionals with other letters after their names!) have far too many patients and far too little time. With that many mommas on their caseload, it’s impossible to give each one thorough, personalized, extensive care. When a momma comes to me and says, “All they tried to do is get baby to latch, they didn’t even talk about pumping!” I wouldn’t call that a bad thing! If they have 15 minutes with you, and you express the desire to breastfeed, then yes, they are going to focus on nursing. They’ve got to make the most of the time they do have with you!
*If you yourself work in hospital lactation, email or DM me, I’d love to hear your experience!*

Widespread lack of pumping education

Many members of hospital lactation staff are undereducated on pumping. Pumping was an incredibly small part of my own formal education and a CLC and also shamefully lacking in the IBCLC program as well, as confirmed by a fellow professional who recently sat for the exam. There is an even greater disparity if the shadowing hours they performed were with lactation professions who were not well versed in pumping, or perhaps not as up-to-date on flange sizing, etc. To gain knowledge about breast pumping, I used my continuing professional development hours to focus on pumping-specific topics, I read pumping-centered books and ebooks, and I learned through peer support and feet-on-the-ground experience. I don’t share this specific passion with everyone, I can tell you that! It takes desire, time, and honestly money, to educate yourself on pumping beyond formal lactation training.

“We have size 24 and size 28.”

Say the lactation professional is knowledgeable about using the hospital pump and getting on a pump schedule. That’s an awesome start! Even better if they understand how to fit a momma for a correctly sized flange. The problem then becomes… “We have size 24 and size 28. If one isn’t working, try the other.” Many hospitals only carry theses two sizes! These may be considered “standard” but they are not average. If I had to pick an average sized flange, I’d pick 17 or 19. Seriously! So it may not be the lactation care you take issue with, but the lack of resources they have to use.

Feed the baby

Coming back to what I said earlier about “respecting the professionals who work hard every day to ensure that mothers and their babies are healthy and happy….” That’s the goal! Feed that baby! If that baby isn’t latching, isn’t eating, and the lactation worker has 15 minutes to meet with the momma… do you think they are going to sit there and read your pump manual with you? I don’t think so!

Emotions run high

Giving birth is a wild experience, physically and emotionally. I remember asking one nurse not to touch me, and telling my husband that she was “too nice.” When a lactation professional grabbed my breast to make a “titty taco” to help my son latch, probably without much warning, I was like… wtf? To them, it’s something they do all day every day. To a brand new, highly hormonal, highly sensitive momma, it can seem invasive and unnatural. I am not gaslighting myself or any other new mommas. We had every right to feel whatever we felt at the time. I just know that I wasn’t exactly in the right mindset to offer much grace toward the lactation staff who did try and help.

Compassion and grace

Speaking of which… that’s the main takeaway here. Having compassion and grace. We don’t know what’s going on behind the scenes in these hospitals. We don’t know how many patients they have, how much experience they’ve had with pumping, what little supplies they are equipped with… We only saw one side of it. So, I encourage you to look back on your experience with hospital lactation staff through a more compassionate lens. To think about the overscheduled, probably underpaid, definitely overstressed staff and offer them grace.

Melissa’s own experience

When my son was born a month early, a team from the NICU was bedside and immediately whisked him to a station next to me to check his APGAR score and make sure he was okay. He didn’t get immediate skin-to-skin or do the “breast crawl” we learn about in breastfeeding class. While he did ace the APGAR test, he was on the small side, was very tired, and had verrrry little stamina for nursing. Nurses made sure I tried to latch him often, and three lactation consultants came into my room to help him latch (that’s unheard of!) However, he wasn’t transferring any colostrum/milk and he developed jaundice and landed himself in the NICU to be gavage-fed formula through the tube. It wasn’t until day 4, if I recall correctly, that I learned about pumping. It wasn’t from a lactation consultant (they didn’t even bring up the topic) It was from a helpful NICU nurse who taught me to use a pump and gave me the tough love I needed to get on, and stay on, a rigorous pumping schedule. The gratitude I have for that NICU nurse has far outweighed the bitterness I felt toward the lactation counselors. Several year removed from the situation, I can now look back on it with gracious compassion toward them and the work that they do.

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Never Quit [breast pumping] on a Bad Day

You’ve heard the phrase “don’t quit on a bad day,” right? This helpful phrase can apply to many areas of your life- a bad day at soccer practice, a bad day at work, a bad day attempting a new hobby or trying a new recipe… and it can definitely apply to breast pumping. For new, or even experienced pumpers, there can be some days when you just want to throw in the towel and pack up that pump (Or smash it to pieces, LOL) Here’s why I don’t think you should quit just yet…

Emotions Are Temporary, Decisions Are Permanent(ish)

When you’re having a bad day, your emotions are heightened. Stress, frustration, and exhaustion can cloud your judgment, leading to decisions you might regret later. It’s easy to feel like the only way out is to quit, but this decision is made under the influence of temporary emotions. Once the storm passes, you might find that the situation isn’t as dire as it seemed. Also… relactation is hard, sometimes impossible. It’s not always possible to just start lactating again after your body has weaned.

“It’s all right to cry; Crying makes you feel better”

There’s a song I used to listen to on a record *record scratch* yes, a RECORD at my grandma’s house. It was from 1974 (No, I’m not THAT old.) by Rosey Grier called “It’s all right to cry” from the album “Free to Be… You & Me” This was waaaaaay before “social emotional learning” was a legitimate science. This was back when kids were told to stop crying, that crying was for babies, that crying doesn’t solve anything. Way ahead of its time, for sure. The point is- It IS alright to cry. In the song, Rosey says “Feelings are such real things, and they change and change and change. It’s alright to know that feelings come and feeling go. It’s alright to cry, it might make you feel better.”
That’s what I want you to keep in mind. Feelings come and feelings go. They change and change and change. How you feel right now is VALID, and it’s okay to cry, but you won’t feel that way forever.

You WILL have a bad day, that’s part of the journey

Every breastfeeding journey, whether exclusive nursing, exclusive pumping, or a mixture of both, has its ups and downs. You will spill the milk, we all do at some point. Bad days are inevitable, but they are also a part of growth. They teach resilience, patience, and the ability to navigate challenges. Bad days tell you that there’s a problem to solve. They can actually be useful in helping you realize what you need. (Getting what you need is a whole ‘nother story, though.)

Clarity Comes with Time

On a bad day, it can feel like the challenges you’re facing are insurmountable. But taking a step back and giving yourself time to reflect can bring clarity. There might be a lot going on that can add to your bad mood (your baby is crying, you are tired, you’re hungry, and you need a shower) Going into a pumping session when you’re already in a bad mood suuuucks. Making a decision to quit when you’re in this mood can be a rash decision, and giving yourself time may help you approach the decision with a clear mind. You might realize that the problem is solvable or that it’s not as significant as it initially seemed. By giving yourself time, you’re allowing your rational mind to take over from your emotional one. Sleep can also help. There’s a reason “sleep on it” is common advice. One of the most comforting thoughts on a bad day is that tomorrow is a new day. Things can change dramatically overnight. A good night’s sleep (or even good stretch of sleep), a conversation with a friend, or simply the passage of time can make a world of difference. When you wake up with a fresh perspective, the problems of today might seem much more manageable.

You’re Stronger Than You Think

I’m not gonna sit here and pretend that everything is just dandy and slap on the ole “You Got This, Mama!” smile. Maybe you don’t “got this.” Bad days can make you feel weak or inadequate, but they also reveal your inner strength. Pushing through difficult times builds resilience and confidence. By not quitting, you’re proving to yourself that you can handle challenges, which will serve you well in the future. Not feeling strong? Talk to someone who has been on a similar journey. How did they work through it? What problems did they face and how did they solve them? If you don’t know any pumping mommas personally, hop online. In the online pumping community, there are maaaany mommas eager to share their struggles and successes with you. As you solve your pumping problems, you might identify strengths in yourself you never knew you had! Give yourself GRACE, and then when you are able, give yourself a high five.

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Why “Don’t quit on a bad day” isn’t good enough advice.

I realize I just spend an entire blog post telling you not to quit on a bad day. Don’t get me wrong, “Don’t quit on a bad day” is GREAT advice… It’s just not good enough. Why?
So you’re having a bad day… a really bad day… you’re at your wits end… you wanna stop pumping. But you don’t, because you heard to “never quit on a bad day.” So you go to bed, hoping for a better day tomorrow.
And often, sleeping and waking refreshed DOES help. But what if it DOESN’T HELP?
Then what? Here’s my advice: YES, sleep on it. Making an important decision on heightened emotions is never a good idea.
THEN, if things aren’t magically better, vent and problem solve. What we call “venting” is simply sharing your emotions with someone, can be your partner or mother or cousin or friend or an online mom group. Share how you are feeling with SOMEONE. preferably, someone who shares a similar experience.
THEN, problem-solve. What isn’t working? How can you make it work better? Do you need to have a discussion with your partner about how they can support you better? Do you need to outsource something like ordering groceries or getting a cleaner? Do you need to find a better system for pumping and feeding? Do you need to change your pump schedule or drop a pump to increase your sanity? Do you need to begin supplementing with formula or donor milk? Do you need to begin the weaning process and bring your pumping journey to an end?
With a rested, clear mind, you CAN make important decisions.
You CAN do hard things, momma. I believe in you. 💛

It’s OKAY to quit if you need to. I repeat, It’s okay to quit if you need to.

Momma. *Takes your hands in my own, and looks you straight in the eyes.* If your mental or physical health is at stake, it’s okay to quit. Yes, I just spent an entire blog post giving you reasons why quitting on a bad day is a bad idea… but quitting, when you have really thought it through, is OKAY. You need to take care of yourself. A happy, healthy momma is waaaay more important than feeding your baby breastmilk. Here’s my best advice on weaning from the pump, to help the transition go as smoothly as possible for you.

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Keeping Breastmilk Cold

As the summer heats up, we’re all wondering the same thing- How do I keep my breastmilk cold when I’m out and about? Here are some tried-and-true ways to chill out about keeping your liquid gold safe from the heat. (And some answers to the burning questions I know you’ll have!)

Storing breastmilk in a cooler

Breastmilk can be stored safely in a cooler with ice/ice packs for 24 hours. This time range is a bit arbitrary because it doesn’t take into account ice melting/outside temperatures. If you are concerned about how cold your cooler is, consider buying a digital or analog thermometer to keep inside the cooler with your milk. The inside of your cooler should be able to keep milk at approximately 40 degrees. It’s a good idea to refresh ice frequently if you’re using lose ice as opposed to a frozen ice pack.

Is a hard-sided or soft-sided cooler better for storing breastmilk?

As long as you keep frozen ice packs or refresh your lose ice, it really doesn’t matter which kind of cooler you get. I have found that hard-sided coolers usually have the best ratings for keeping food colder longer. Splurge: Yeti Roadie Cooler Save: Coleman Chiller Series. There are really quality soft-sided coolers available nowadays, too! Splurge: Ice Chest Box by RTIC. Save: OPUX Soft Cooler Bag. While these coolers are larger and can store more than just your breastmilk, you may wish to get a breastmilk-only cooler like the ColdGold by Sarah Wells (save at sarahwells.com with code PUMPMOMMAPUMP15). As with anything you purchase online, I suggest reading through the reviews thoroughly. If you will be out in the sun all day (Like at the beach) or in a hot car, I suggest getting a quality cooler with great reviews for keeping cool the longest. (Pricier coolers generally have better quality insulation, in my experience.) You can always do a test-run at home with the cooler and a thermometer.

Storing breastmilk in a CeresChill chiller

Keep your breastmilk chilled in the Ceres Chill. In my opinion, their breastmilk chiller is a MUST-HAVE for pumping mommas on the go. You can put up to 24 ounces of breastmilk in the outer chamber with ice in the inner chamber, or you can put up to 12 ounces of breastmilk in the inner chamber and fill out outer chamber with ice! They even have a smaller version of their original chiller, but the original is the best seller. Learn more about this clever invention in my blog post titled: “Yes, you do need a CeresChill!” Use code: PUMPITUP to save at cerechill.com

Storing breastmilk in a mini-fridge

If you are staying in a hotel, call and see if there is a mini-fridge in your hotel room. If not, you may choose to bring your own mini refrigerator to store your breastmilk in. This refrigerator should keep your breastmilk at a safe temperature (35-40 degrees) just like your fridge at home. Breastmilk is best used or switched to a freezer within 4 days of being put into the refrigerator. For a smaller option, consider this personal sized mini fridge, or a plug-in cooler (This one has a car adapter or traditional wall plug option!)

Using dry ice to transport breastmilk

Dry ice is often suggested for use when transporting frozen breastmilk*, such as when you are moving cross-country and need to keep your freezer stash safe. Dry ice should never touch your frozen breastmilk bags directly, as it could burn through the plastic. Always use leather gloves when working with dry ice, and pack any free space in your freezer with newspaper or brown packing paper.
* I would not recommend dry ice for daily use.

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Frequently Asked Questions:

  • What temperature is safe for storing breastmilk? The CDC recommends keeping milk at a refrigerated temperature of 35-40 degrees.
  • What temperature even IS “room temp” anyway??? “Room temperature” is defined as the temperature range from 68-74 degrees. Breastmilk is good for about 4 hours at room temp.
  • What do I do if I leave my breastmilk out in the heat too long? If your breastmilk sits out in the heat for longer than an hour or two, you should not feel it to your baby. Instead, give it a sniff. Smells like it’s gone bad? Toss it. Smells ok? Add it to their next bath! It’s terrific for their skin! (Or your own bath!)
  • Can my baby drink cold milk? Absolutely! Some babies may be hesitant to drink cold milk if they are used to drinking warm milk. Try room temp first, and then work your way to cold milk. Feeding baby cold milk is also a good way to cool them off on a hot day!
  • Will my baby get a cold from drinking cold milk? This is an old wive’s tale and not true. Cold milk is perfectly safe for your baby to drink. The common cold is a virus and babies cannot catch viruses from cold milk, so don’t worry!
  • Why can’t I just put my breastmilk in my Stanley cup? If you put warm, freshly pumped milk into a regular insulated cup, it will keep your breastmilk warm. If you put freshly pumped milk into a thermal cup and place that thermal cup into the refrigerator or cooler with ice packs, you are actually insulating your milk FROM the cold! Yup! You’re keeping it warmer, longer, and the cup will actually protect your milk from the cold, not chill it. 

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Managing Your Freezer Stash

Freezer Stash- n. Collection of surplus breastmilk frozen for later use. Whether you are considering starting up a freezer stash or looking for advice on how to use yours, this post is for you! You might be wondering why it might be beneficial to freeze milk, how best to store it, when and how to begin using it, and how to figure out how long it’ll last! All this and more is coming your way. Read on, momma!
*Trigger warning- This blog post contains images and descriptions of large breastmilk freezer stashes. If this troubles you, please close out of this blog post.*

Disclaimers: This post contains affiliate links and codes from trusted brands. All images in this post were either donated with permission or taken by me.

Do I need a freezer stash?

There’s no cut-and-dry answer for this.

Many mommas who predominately nurse baby at the breast do not choose or need to store extra milk. It may be wise, however, to save a few day’s worth of ounces in the freezer (breastmilk fed babies can take up to 30 ounces a day) in case of emergencies. One momma I worked with was admitted into the hospital with appendicitis without warning and was glad she had a bit of milk stored up! Saving a bit of milk can also come in handy if you’re planning to be apart from baby. If you are planning to be separated from baby over the time you’d nurse, you’ll need to leave milk for the baby, and pump at the time you’d normally nurse.

For exclusive pumpers with oversupply, it’s wise to keep a day or two ahead in the refrigerator, and freeze the rest. This milk can be fed when you begin to wean and extend the time you are able to offer breastmilk. Some mommas choose to donate their extra frozen milk formally (milk bank) or informally (mother-to-mother, directly.)

Mommas who supplement with formula can offer partial breastmilk and partial formula, and freeze the rest. This can actually help exclusive pumpers reduce the number of times they pump daily and have proven to pump for longer than they originally planned because their schedule becomes more manageable. A partial diet of breastmilk is still hugely beneficial to your baby, offering white blood cells and antibodies in addition to daily nutritional benefits.

My personal stash story:

With my first baby, I set a goal to exclusively pump for six months. When I hit the six month mark, I began to reduce my pumping schedule to gain a bit more freedom, and began supplementing with formula. Since my son was starting many other foods at this age, supplementing was not a huge mental hurdle for me- I grouped formula in with all the other foods nurturing my baby that I did not personally make. (You don’t give yourself a hard time for not producing pureed yams and apples with your breasts, right? Just group formula in with other additional nutrition!) I switched to 50/50 breastmilk and formula. I stashed my extra milk in the freezer and was able to not only surpass my original pumping goal, but to offer breastmilk longer than I imagined!
With my second baby, who I also exclusively pumped for, I created an unintentional freezer stash because she was having trouble digesting my milk in addition to a milk protein allergy. I donated 1,000 ounces of frozen breastmilk that contained dairy to another baby. When we discovered that she was digesting my milk comfortably with a 50/50 breastmilk-formula ratio, I was able to stash extra breastmilk and once again feed greater freedom with my pumping schedule and offer breastmilk longer than I imagined.

Check for high lipase!

Lipase is an enzyme found in all breastmilk that helps break down fats. It’s a good thing! But some women struggle with high levels of this enzyme, causing their milk to smell or taste funny. You usually won’t notice the smell until you defrost your milk after freezing. High lipase can cause your milk to smell soapy or metallic. (Breastmilk without high levels of lipase usually has a mild smell or no smell at all, and slightly sweet taste.) High lipase milk is ok for baby to drink, but they may not want to. I strongly encourage you to TEST EARLY for high lipase before stashing away a ton of milk! Freeze and defrost milk early to test this out. How do you “test” your milk? Just thaw some breastmilk and give it to your baby! If baby takes it, no problem! If not, you’ll have to scald your milk BEFORE feeding or try one of the tricks listed in my blog post on high lipase.

How do I store all this milk?

Storing breastmilk in “bricks” can really help freezer space and organization…AND flat bags thaw quicker! I stored 5 ounces of milk per bag, removed as much of the excess air as possible, frozen flat on a tray, and then assembled into bricks of 50 ounces in gallon-size ziplock bags. When freezing super flat using a “freese-it-flat” or between boxes of fish sticks like me, you get reallllly flat bags capable of stacking together nicely in gallon ziplocks! This uniformity makes it very easy to stack and count. Check the image below and the storage page of my website for more information on the logistics of milk storage.

I highly suggest freezing in breastmilk storage bags instead of bottles. More and more companies are making silicone freezer bags as a reusable option. (Save on Junobie brand with code PUMPMOMMA10) Some mommas store smaller quantities of milk in silicone trays and then once frozen, transfer to larger storage containers. (Save on SouperCubes with code PUMPMOMMAPUMP10)

Many mommas end up buying a chest freezer for their breastmilk. I recently helped a friend stock their 5 cubic foot chest freezer with approximately 2,000 ounces of breastmilk. If you are a massive overproducer, you might need a larger chest freezer. We personally purchased a 3.5cu feet smaller model chest freezer and still call it the “milk freezer” to this date (even though it’s now full of chicken nuggets instead of breastmilk!)

How long will it last in the freezer?

Breastmilk is good for up to 12 months in the freezer. The CDC used to specify different lengths of time for different types of freezers. They changed their recommendations to “best by 6 months, good up to 12 months” regardless of freezer style.

First in, First out!

When it’s time to begin using your stash, think “First in, First out!” Make sure to rotate your freezer stash by feeding the oldest milk first, and freezing new milk. When doing the “brick method” as described above, write the MONTH really large on the sides/top of the brick- this way, you can immediately know what milk to pull from the freezer! (You can write a date range if you are really organized, but I find that the month is good enough.)

How do I begin using my stash?

This part is up to you! Here are a few ideas of how I’ve seen mommas use their freezer stash.

  • BOTTLE-A-DAY – Give one bottle of frozen breastmilk per day
  • FREEZER FRIDAYS – Choose one day of the week to use frozen milk
  • DAYCARE – Use frozen breastmilk on daycare days
  • SUPPLEMENT – Go 50/50 with thawed breastmilk and formula, either half bottles of breastmilk and
  • MIX IT UP- Combine frozen and fresh breastmilk in feeding bottles *must be used within 24 hrs of final thaw
  • DONATE – Consider donating excess breastmilk formally (through a milk bank) or informally (direct mother-to-mother donation)
  • EXTEND THE END – Extend the time your baby receives breastmilk by continuing to feed frozen milk after you have weaned from fresh milk production.

For more info on introducing a bottle after exclusively nursing, visit my blog post on the topic.

This beautiful momma donated 2,000 ounces to our friend’s baby after she passed away last November

Safely combining frozen milk with fresh breastmilk or formula

It’s completely fine to combine your frozen breastmilk with freshly expressed breastmilk or formula as long as you do it safely. It’s a wise idea to make sure your baby takes frozen milk first, so you do not waste whatever you mix it with. For mommas with high lipase, mixing it with fresh milk or formula may disguise the stronger flavor of the thawed milk!

When mixing thawed breastmilk with freshly expressed milk, temperatures don’t matter as long as you are feeding it to baby right away. You can even thaw larger amounts and combine with fresh in a pitcher, as long as you use this combined milk within 24 hours of complete thaw (going by recommendations for thawed milk here instead of fresh!)

When mixing thawed breastmilk with formula, prepare formula as directed first, then add thawed breastmilk. Use within 24 hours after mixing. *DO NOT use breastmilk as a replacement for water when preparing powdered formula!* Breastmilk can actually help your baby digest the formula!

I recommend using the Dr Brown’s pitcher

Can I feed my older baby milk from when they were younger?

Absolutely! They will most likely need the same amount, or a tiny bit more, than they current drink. I suggest offering the amount you are used to offering, and heating up more if needed, so you do not waste milk. The only word of caution I have about this comes to colostrum. That thick yellow milk from the first few days after birth is still hugely beneficial to your baby, but may act as a bit of a laxitive if given in concentration, so I suggest diluting it in more mature milk. You can even give an older child your baby’s frozen milk! Some people use it in cereals, smoothies, or sippy cups!

Both my pumplings enjoying my milk!

How long will my stash last?

Here’s where you’ve got to do a bit of math. Take the amount of ounces you froze and divide it by the number of ounces your baby drinks per day. (Example- 1000 ounces divided by 30 oz/day = 33 days of milk.) Most breastmilk-fed babies continue to take the same daily total ounces until they are 12 months old, when most pediatricians suggest increasing solid meals and reducing milk to ~16oz/day.

What about a power outage?

The thought of losing an entire freezer stash is horrifying, isn’t it? I highly suggest equipping your chest freezer with a freezer alarm (they even make wifi freezer alarms now!), and taking the necessary precautions for impending outages. I have an entire blog post on what to do if your power goes out, so be sure to bookmark it incase your house experiences a power outage (especially during hurricane or winter storm seasons!)

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My Manual Pump Hurts… Am I Doing It Right?

A manual breast pump or “hand pump” can be hugely beneficial to your breastfeeding journey. For some mommas, though, it can cause discomfort or pain. If this sounds like you, let’s try to fix that and get you pumping in comfort!

First of all, if you don’t know if a manual pump can benefit YOU, I suggest reading my “You Need A Manual Pump” blog post for all the reasons I personally love my manual pump and how it can be a valuable (and inexpensive!) addition to your pump collection.

Assembling your manual pump

To ensure that your pump is in good, working condition, carefully clean, dry, and assemble it. It might not be as intuitive as it seems! (And did you even know the valve and membrane needs to face to the side? Mind blown, right?)

How to use your manual pump

In this video, I go over the simple way to operate the Medela Harmony manual pump as well as the Lansinoh manual pump. Other pumps, like Dr Brown’s, are similar to the Lansinoh in operation- Just do shallow, quick sucks to initiate your letdown, and then switch to slower, deeper squeezes of the handle for expression.


Troubleshooting your manual pump:

Believe me, as a lactation counselor who specializes in all things pumping related, I hear it all! I’ve taken some of the top complaints and give you easy solutions to troubleshoot your manual pump issues. Remember, there are NO stupid questions… you don’t know what you don’t know! You know?

“I just don’t respond to a manual pump”

First of all, know that it is true that different women’s bodies respond differently to various pumps. That being said… are you doing it right? Take a minute to review the instructional video above and give it another try! Be patient with the letdown mode, using very shallow very quick squeezes of the handle until you either see or feel your letdown, when the milk starts flowing. Some mommas describe their letdown as slightly painful pins and needles, whereas others feel a fullness, and others still do not feel their letdown at all. Next, use slow squeezes of the handle, massaging/gently compressing the breast with your free hand. The compression may encourage your body to respond!

“My manual pump is losing suction!”

First, check that all parts and present and accounted for, and assembled correctly. My assembly video above should help with that. If the valve and membrane are not present, there will be no suction. Take the handle off and make sure the little o-ring is present and hasn’t fallen off, which can also affect suction. Make sure the plastic part of the handle is fully connected to the squishy part, pressed in snugly. You can also try replacing the white flappy membrane, especially if you use the pump heavily. Make sure no cloth is caught between the flange and your breast, breaking suction. If you lose suction mid-session, check that your valve and membrane are still attached and haven’t fallen off into your milk. Reposition the flange on your breast, centering your nipple in the flange tunnel, and try again.

“It hurts to use my manual pump”

A few things can be done about this. The first is to ensure you have the proper flange size. (You can size yourself with my DIY Flange Sizing Guide!) Yes, this matters for manual pumps, too! Once you find the correct size, you should use the same size for your electric and your manual pump. You might find a silicone flange more comfortable. Make sure you aren’t squeezing the handle with too much force, or too quickly. Be careful not to overdo it- listen to your body and adjust the strength of suction as needed. Pain mid-session? Remove the flange from your breast and reposition it. Something as little as that has helped me in the past! Use lubrication, like a flange spray or a dab of food-grade coconut oil applied to your nipple/areola with a clean finger before pumping.


“I don’t get as much from my manual pump!”

First, make sure you are using the correct size flange. This can make a huge difference! Review all the videos here and from my other blog post about manual pumps to make sure you’re using it effectively. Don’t just trust me, search your brand pump on YouTube and see if others have created helpful videos on how to use your pump. My biggest piece of advice for this issue is to apply gentle but steady compression with your free hand while pumping. This video should help!


“My wrists really hurt after using my manual pump”

Heavy use of a manual pump can result in sore hands or wrists. Try operating the pump with your other hand. Do wrist exercises. Massage your forearms to improve blood flow to your wrist and fingers and reduce inflammation. If you feel that you’ve really injured your wrists, apply ice, take an anti-inflammatory medication, and call your healthcare provider. For more information on repetitive strain injuries related to breastfeeding, read this article from Today’s Parent.

“My back/neck hurt while pumping”

Look at your posture. Are you all hunched over with little hands up near your chest like a T-Rex? Stand up and do some stretches. Then, find a comfortable seat on a chair or couch. Place a pillow behind just your upper back. This way you feel like you can relax, but are still supported in the upright position. Avoid hunching over and staring at your bottle as you operate your manual pump.


“I can’t find different flange sizes for my manual pump”

If you have a Medela Harmony, there aren’t special flanges just for the Harmony- Any Medela flange will fit, even compatible off-brand ones on Amazon. Same thing goes for the Lansinoh manual pump- Any Lansinoh or compatible off-brand flanges will work. If you have a Dr Brown’s manual pump, you may need a flange insert in your correct size. Phillips Avent and Tommee Tippee manual pumps come with a soft silicone shield which may not come in a wide variety of sizes, but you can check with the manufacturer.

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Do I need to sterilize pumping supplies?

With all the stress on properly cleaning your pumping and feeding supplies, Is sterilization necessary? I often see this step listed as *optional.* Why is that the case? (And what sources back up your decision to, or not to, sterilize your bottles and pump stuff?

Image: Electric bottle sterilizer from PMP’s antiques collection

To sterilize or not to sterilize?

According to the CDC, sterilization is “for extra protection.” They suggest doing this at least once daily for newborns (they count “newborn” as any infant under 2 months old), babies who were born prematurely, babies with a weakened immune system, or babies undergoing medical treatment (such as chemotherapy). For healthy babies, they stress proper cleaning of bottles and pump parts with hot soapy water after every use, followed by air drying. HealthyChildren.org cited the same information from the CDC, and adds that if you use a dishwasher with a heating drying cycle, a separate sanitizing step is not necessary. 

According to WebMD, this practice comes from olden days when water supply was not reliably clean. If your water supply is safe for you to drink, it’s safe to wash/rinse baby bottles with, without additional sterilization. It’s not necessary to sterilize what is already safe. They do suggest getting well water tested if you use a private well.

According to Baby Center, a Canadian publication, it’s not enough to wash bottles in soapy water alone. Before proper cleaning/sterilization, babies would often become sick with thrush, gastroenteritis, viruses, and parasitic infections. They suggest sterilization by boiling or steaming equipment after washing for at least the first 4 months. This reduces the risk of baby getting sick during their vulnerable first year.

According to the NHS (UK), sterilizing after a complete wash and rinse is recommended up until 12 months of age. This protects baby from infections, in particular diarrhea and vomiting that can cause baby to become severely dehydrated. They suggest sterilization by steaming, boiling, or using a cold water sterilizing solution. 

According to the National Library of Medicine, NCBI, sterilization is only necessary when a pump and pump supplies are being used by more than one infant. They state that breastmilk collection kits should not be used by different mothers unless they have been properly sterilized, and that nipples and pacifiers should be used by only one infant. They go so far as to say that in a hospital, if a pacifier or bottle nipple touches any unclean surface, that it should not be cleaned but discarded altogether.

According to the AAP, concerns of water safety come into play when a family is using a private well. Illness resulting from children’s ingestion of contaminated water can be severe. (This also goes for using private well water to prepare formula. More information on well water usage can be found on their website, linked below under “Sources.”

*** ALL baby bottle and pump companies suggest an initial sterilization before the first use of their products. (Be sure to read the instructions provided with your pumping supplies to see what parts can be sterilized!) ***

Sooooo… like many things, educate yourself and do what you feel is best for your baby. 

I do highly suggest sterilization for premature or medically fragile babies, or if your tap water is unsafe to drink, or if you are using a private well.

How do I sterilize baby bottles?

If you’ve decided that sterilization step is important for you, you’re going to need to know how to do it! First, clean your bottles and pumping supplies with hot soapy water. Any dish soap is fine, but you might find that Dapple or Babyganics bottle soap best removes the greasy film left behind from breastmilk. Then, proceed with sterilization. The two most common ways of sterilizing are boiling and steaming.

Boil

  • Place your disassembled pump parts and bottles in a large pot and cover with water
  • Bring to a boil
  • Boil for 5-10 minutes, stirring occasionally (Set a timer!)
  • Remove all items with tongs and air dry
  • WARNING– Over-boiling or overfilling pot with items that come to rest against the side can result in damage to your pumping supplies!

Steam

  • Use a microwave steam bag or plastic microwave steamer. Follow product directions, adding a bit of water and not exceeding the microwave time they recommend. Vent and allow steam to escape before touching items and allowing to air dry.
  • Suggested microwave steamers: Medela microwave sterilizer bags (20 uses per bag, great for travel/work!) Evenflo silicone microwave bag, Philips Avent steamer, Dr. Brown’s microwave steamer, Munchkin steam sterilizer,

Self-contained electric steamers

  • Follow product recommendations to sterilize pump parts and bottles using a self-contained electric steamer designed for this use only.
  • Suggested steamers: Baby Brezza bottle sterilizer and dryer machine, Dr Brown’s All-in-one, Philips Avent premium sterilizer/dryer, Papablic baby bottle electric sterilizer, Wabi Baby electric sterilizer
  • UV sterilizers like this one by Grownsy

Dish washer

  • Remember, if you use the heat dry or sanitize settings on your dish washer, no additional sterilization is necessary!
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* Melissa’s own experience *

Boiling freaked me out. I accidentally warped a bottle so from then on, I was more careful. Personally, I sterilized via microwave steam sterilization twice a day for my early babies, since my first baby was premature and I was used to that level of care with my second, early-term baby. I eventually moved to once-a-day sterilization for about 6 months or so (mostly out of habit, honestly.) My favorite product was the Medela Microwave Sterilizer Bags but if I did it all over again, I’d either use a reusable microwave sterilizer like this one by Philips Avent, or spring for an electric sterilizer. If money were no object, I’d definitely get a countertop dishwasher for all my pumping supplies!

Sources:

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Do I Have Elastic Nipples?

How do you know if you have “Elastic Nipples?” (and what does that even mean???)

Our skin is naturally elastic (I mean, just think about how much our skin stretches in pregnancy, doesn’t it!) and all nipples swell during pumping. However, some mommas have more elastic tissue in their nipples that can be problematic when pumping. I’ve previously posted about flange sizing, but this post is all about elastic nipple tissue.

So how can you tell?
An elastic nipple may stretch lengthwise and even reach the end of the flange tunnel.
An elastic nipple may swell widthwise to fill the flange tunnel no matter what size flange you use. THAT’S the kicker- If you don’t have elastic nipple tissue and your flange is too large, you’ll experience what I call the “nipple mountain”, pulling in a lot of areola with a little nipple pulsing on top with each suck of the pump. The nipple itself wouldn’t swell or stretch like an elastic nipple would. Check the video below for a visual:

The Nipple Mountain!

(I really should copyright this term! 😜)
When I do flange sizing consultations, this is the easiest way to know whether your flanges are too large or whether you have elastic nipple tissue (as you saw in the video above.) When a flange is too large, part or all of the areola gets sucked inside the flange tunnel while pumping, and the nipple pulses on top like a little nipple mountain. That signals to me that the flange is too large. When a momma has elastic nipple tissue, the nipple itself would swell either sideways to fit the whole flange tunnel and/or extend down the length of the flange tunnel toward the end. Notice in the drawing above how the nipple itself is not swelling. This momma would want to consider selecting a flange that is smaller in diameter.
Why does this matter? When a flange is too large it could hurt- rubbing the areola resulting in friction blisters, peely skin, or a red raw feeling. A flange that is too large might also not remove milk efficiently. The mother might take a long time to empty or experience ‘clogs’ or reduced milk supply. A flange that is too large can easily become off centered which could result in some milk ducts being stimulated more than others, which could cause a ‘clog’ (inadequately emptied breast, in this case) as well.

What can you do about elastic nipples?

So you decided that you DO have elastic nipples, and you are finding it to be problematic. What can you do about it?
You can’t turn elastic nipples INelastic (like, you can’t make that go away) so you have to work with it instead of against it! I highly suggest that you get sized professionally for the correct size flange, and you find the size and style flange that is both the most comfortable and fully empties the breast most efficiently. (Book a consult or flange sizing here.)
What do I mean by “style” flange? This can mean selecting a flange cushion, a silicone flange, an angled flange, and/or adding or eliminating lubrication while pumping. Confused? That’s why it’s best to work with a lactation professional 1:1 to figure this out! Check out my go-to flange style options below.

BeauGen Breast Pump Cushions

My go-to solution for elastic nipples that extend down the entire flange tunnel: BeauGen cushions! (They fit into flanges sized 21-27 and bring the size down by 2mm so are ideal for mommas who need a flange size of 19-24) They gently hold back the stretchy nipple tissue so that the nipple can’t stretch all the way down the flange tunnel. SAVE on BeauGen cushions with code PUMPMOMMAPUMP.

Lacteck Silicone Flanges

⭐️ MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE ⭐️
I wouldn’t even say I’m “team silicone” over here because I’m just straight “team Lacteck!“ They are SO COMFORTABLE… great for elastic nipples, YES, but I do not have elastic nips and my nips also love ‘em! Use code PUMPMOMMAPUMP10 to save on Lacteck flanges.
(Spectra/Motif users will need this additional connector to use Lacteck flanges)

PumpinPal Flanges

PumpinPal flanges are angled, silicone or plastic flanges. While they aren’t for everyone, I’ve had many a momma tell me that they “saved their pumping journey.” They can be good for elastic nips because the silicone variety (smaller sizes) help hold the areola back from the tunnel and all styles provide a different, more ergonomic way of pumping. They also come in a variety pack as opposed to being individually measured in mm. Save on PumpinPal flanges with code PUMPMOMMA5.

What about coconut oil as lubrication?

I always suggest using a food-grade coconut oil as lubrication when pumping. However, for mommas experiencing problematic elastic nipple tissue, I caution against coconut oil. While it can relieve friction, it can also make elastic tissue stretch even more! Mommas who are experiencing width-wise expansion, definitely try coconut oil. Mommas who are experiencing length-wise expansion, you might benefit from NOT using coconut oil. Try it and see! Pumping is all about experimentation and finding what works for you.

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Yes, You do Need a Ceres Chill® Breastmilk Chiller

We’re talkin’ all things Ceres Chill today. In my opinion, their breastmilk chiller is a MUST-HAVE for pumping mommas on the go. There’s nothing out there as compact, as versatile, and honestly as genius as this chiller and if it takes a whole blog post to prove it to ya, that’s what I’m gonna do! If you’re reading this, you probably a) are considering getting a chiller and want to know if it’s worth it, b) already have the chiller and want to get the most out of your purchase, or even c) never heard of the chiller but you’ll admit… now you’re intrigued. Read on my friend, read on….

I get really pumped about cool pumping stuff, ok?

Why the Ceres Chill?

Why not a Yeti, or Stanley, or other insulated cup? Wouldn’t that be just as good? Short answer: No. Long answer: Nope, and here’s why! If you put warm, freshly pumped milk into a regular insulated cup, it will keep your breastmilk warm. (And we don’t want that! We want to get that milk chilled, right?) If you put freshly pumped milk into a thermal cup and place that thermal cup into the refrigerator or cooler with ice packs, you are actually insulating your milk FROM the cold! Yup! You’re keeping it warmer, longer, and the cup will actually protect your milk from the cold, not chill it. Enter the Ceres Chill, which chills your milk from the inside, and then insulated it from the environment around it, keeping it chilled.

How do you use it?

For a complete user’s guide, visit CeresChill.com It’s so simple: To store a smaller amount of breastmilk (up to 12oz): Fill the Outer Chamber with enough ice to be in contact with the bottom of the Inner Chamber and a splash of cold water (no more than 1/4 cup), so that the Inner Chamber is immersed in the ice and water when reassembled. Shake
the ice and water around a bit to screw the Connector and Inner Chamber back on to the Chiller. To store a larger amount of breastmilk (up to 24oz): Pour milk into the Outer Chamber. Fill the Inner Chamber with as much ice as you can fit, and a splash of water, and submerge inner chamber into the breastmilk.

Heating up breastmilk on the go

This is a question I get A LOT. How do you heat up breastmilk on the go? When I told you that Ceres Chill has thought of everything… I wasn’t kidding! Fill your “chiller” with hot water before leaving the house (no internal chiller chamber needed) and when it’s time to head baby’s bottle, attach the bottle securely to the inside of the lid and warm milk. (Warmed milk should be no warmer than the inside of your wrist, so make sure to check!) SO convenient!

Mommy juice

YES the chiller can be used beyond breast pumping! I love when baby items have lasting use, long after the baby stage… it’s the best bang for your buck, ya know? Get the Happily Ever After bundle to turn your chiller into a water bottle with infuser! The bundle comes with an infuser attachment, a sippy cup attachment, and a straw lid for mom! Oh… and it can also fit an entire bottle (750ml) of wine WITH the internal chilling chamber to fully chill a bottle of wine in 30 minutes!

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F.A.Q.s

Check out the full list of frequently asked questions on the CeresChill website. Here are the questions I get over at Pump Momma Pump:

  • “Can I add freshly pumped milk to chilled milk?” YES (See video below!)
  • “Why can’t I just use my stanley cup? It’s cheaper!” I hope I fully answered this for you under ‘Why Ceres Chill?’ above. If not, DM me and I’ll explain it!
  • “Can I fly with it?” You absolutely can! (And this is a GREAT use for the chiller!) When you go through security, just dump the current ice water and refill with ice and water at any dining location in your airport!
  • “Do you use it yourself?” Yes I did, and I now use it for wine! I just got the DemiGoddess and I want to find creative ways to use that one as well.
  • “How long does it keep breastmilk cool for?” ALL DAY! (And you can very very easily add more ice once the current ice melts!) Kristen from @bemybreastfriend recently did a pretty intense temperature study and the original CeresChill won by a landslide!
[Adding freshly pumped milk to chilled milk]

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Disclaimer 1: I was originally gifted the Ceres Chill back in MARCH OF 2020… yup, I kid you not. A chiller for “on the go” when I wasn’t allowed to goooo anywhere! While it quickly became an ESSENTIAL item for essential workers, I’m kicking myself for not getting it sooner, when I was back to work as a pumping mom before the world shut down. Disclaimer 2: While this blog post was sponsored by CeresChill, I do not currently make money off of sales for the chiller.

The Sarah Wells Allie Sling Bag was designed to hold a full-size chiller in the outer pocket! (What a great combo!)

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