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#6- Partner support helps exclusive pumping work (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the “7 Things I Wish I Knew” at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #6: Partner support helps exclusive pumping work. I wish I knew just how active a roll my husband would take in supporting my pumping journey!

Important note before I begin: My husband did not get paternity leave. He took a few vacation days while our first baby was in the NICU, but otherwise went to work every day of the work week. Working his day job did not affect his ability to support me when he was home, and I am grateful for a relationship where I felt fully supported during my maternity leave, sharing parenting responsibilities as 50/50 as possible, when possible.

He was one of my biggest cheerleaders

Every pumping mom needs a cheerleader! Someone to listen to their goals and help them achieve them! My husband was totally on board with whatever feeding goal I had in mind before giving birth and attended a prenatal breastfeeding class with me. When I ended up exclusive pumping, that plan changed, but the support did not. We ended up liking the exclusive pumping lifestyle because it helped him take on a more active role in feeding our children.

Not everyone was on board with my choice to exclusively pump. Some people didn’t hide their disappointment that I chose to pump instead of nurse. Others questioned what was in my bottle and judged me, assuming I was formula feeding. My own mom didn’t even “get” it, you know? But Greg did. He was totally on board and even talks to his friends about it! It was really hard at times, but he stuck by my side. He was and is one of my biggest supporters and I am so grateful.

Leaving the hospital with pumping 1 and pumpling 2

He fed the baby more than I did!

This was especially true in the NICU! Most of the time we spent there, I was pumping while my husband fed and changed our baby. But even after the NICU, when we was home and I was pumping, he was usually the one feeding the babies. It was an incredible bonding experience for him and definitely a help to me!

He was nervous at first, because unlike my years of experience caring for a younger sibling or children I babysat, he had no prior experience with babies. He was also nervous because our first baby was small and connected to wires and tubes in the NICU! The NICU nurses showed him how to feed, burp, and change our son. With a bit of practice, he grew more comfortable. He had a whole routine for feeding and burping down, and quickly became a pro at it!

Any other NICU dads here?

We split nights

We call this “protected sleep.” My husband is even a total fan of the method and talks about it often. From the graphic below, you can see that as an exclusive pumper, I pumped once in the middle of the night, until my babies slept through the night, staring at 1 month postpartum (I pumped twice in the night for the first month.)
Every time I pumped, I would leave out a bottle of freshly pumped breastmilk on the counter for the next feed (this is OK to do if you feed it within four hours) It really saved time from when we used to use bottle warmers, rookie mistake.
My husband is a night owl so, he was often good to be awake until midnight or so, so taking the first shift was easy for him, and preferable. This way he also got that solid block of sleep right before work. No, he did not get any paternity leave, and he had a desk job, so it was OK if he was a little tired. I mean come on, mom is literally caring for another human being all day and we think it’s OK for her to be the tired one? …Patriarchy. Ugh.
How was my sleep protected?
When I was off-duty, I’d sleep in our bedroom with a loud A/C on. Getting that solid block of sleep did a world of wonders for me in those early months, we were both as rested as the other. It was great for empathy, let me tell you.
If baby needed to eat right at 2 AM, dad would feed the baby while I pumped. If dad already went to bed, I would either pause my pumping session and feed the baby, or feed the baby while I pumped, which became easier with practice.

He took on dish duty

We didn’t figure this one out right away. At first, I thought only I knew how to do this properly, so I did it all. That became tiresome VERY quickly. I taught him the safe way to clean pumping supplies (see advice for cleaning HERE) and soon he was able to help me out by taking on dish duty for pumping and feeding supplies.

After I had my second baby, I developed postpartum anxiety disorder and had a really rough time of it for awhile there. At this time, we reviewed our household jurisdictions and he took over ALL dish washing (did I wash dishes here and there? Of course… but feeding (whether it be pumping milk, packing lunches, or cooking meals) became mostly my duty and washing up became mostly his duty.)

As you can imagine, this helped support my exclusive pumping journey. I also did the fridge hack, which involves storing my pumping accessories in the refrigerator between sessions so he only watched the whole batch every morning and every evening. (I really should write a whole blog post on the “Fridge hack” but for now, you can read about it in the highlights on my Instagram page.)

Candid shot of my husband in our old kitchen, washing pump parts

>>> Note to the reader: I usually create blog posts to offer advice, tips, and tricks to apply to your own pumping journey. I kept this particular blog post personal, because I am sharing what worked for us, in our own family dynamic. Everybody’s family works differently and my experience may look similar or very different than yours. In no way am I instructing you in how your relationship should work or how your household should run. If you do get inspired to try any of the things that worked well for us, I hope they work well for you too!

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#5- Supplementing is okay! (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the “7 Things I Wish I Knew” at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #5: Supplementing is not only “okay” but can help you meet or exceed your breastfeeding goal!

I highly suggest setting an achievable goal, which looks different for everyone. (Yours might be week-to-week or month-to-month, 3 months, 6 months, etc!) When I was exclusively pumping for my first baby, I set a goal of 6 months. I had the support system and resources where 6 months seemed like an achievable goal. At the 6 months mark, I decided that I could keep going! I reduced my pumps to 4 per day to give myself more freedom, and began supplementing. Supplementing helped me far exceed my goal (I made it to 11 months with my first baby!)

Me and my first pumpling, around 6 months

Let’s talk about supplementing. It’s way more common than you think. Supplementing is a fact of life for many mommas, but can also be the key to prolonging your pumping journey!
How? Read on to find out:
*This post is NOT sponsored by any formula brands, nor is any specific brand mentioned/suggested/promoted within this post*

Coming to terms with supplementing

The need to supplement can leave mommas feeling guilty about not being able to provide a complete diet of breastmilk for their baby. I get it, I’ve been there. Keep in mind, even if you can’t provide 100% breastmilk for your baby, they are still getting 100% of the benefits of your breastmilk. Read that again, because it’s true. That amount still matters. (For example, did you know that one teaspoon of breastmilk contains up to 3 million germ-killing cells? Wow!) Still, it can be hard to start supplementing. There can be feelings of failure. There can be feelings of guilt and grief. Let yourself feel your feelings, because they matter. Then, try reframing your mindset about supplementing. Formula was scientifically designed to help infants thrive. A mindset shift that helped me personally was this: Soon, there will be lots of things your baby will eat that you didn’t personally create with your body. Do you give yourself a hard time because you can’t create bananas, bread, or broccoli with your body? Of course not! Just group formula in with all the new foods that will nourish your baby.
I promise, there are so many silver linings to supplementing!

The benefits of supplementing

  • Supplementing can help improve baby’s bilirubin levels to combat jaundice.
  • Supplementing can help while a momma is actively working with a lactation professional to improve nursing or pumping.
  • Supplementing under a doctor’s guidance can help a baby who is struggling with weight gain.
  • Supplementing helps a momma with low supply keep offering breastmilk.
  • Supplementing can help mommas reach their breast pumping goal.
  • Supplementing can help momma ease up on her pumping schedule and potentially pump longer than anticipated because it feels more sustainable!
  • By combo-feeding, you can ensure baby is still getting the benefits of your breastmilk, no matter what amount you are able to provide. Think of it as the most personalized vitamin you can give them!

Since this is a topic I feel passionately about, I’ve blogged about it before. Today’s blog is an abbreviated version. For the full blog on supplementing, click HERE.

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#4- Calories Count [to support your milk supply]! (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the “7 Things I Wish I Knew” at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #4: Calories Count! Breastfeeding expends an average of 500 calories per day. It wasn’t until my second exclusive pumping journey that I realized how a big ol’ cheeseburger would increase my milk supply for the day (and dehydration would kill my milk supply!)

Fuel for the Flow: How Calories & Hydration Can Boost Your Milk Supply

Breastfeeding is an incredible way to nourish your baby — but did you know that nourishing yourself is just as important? Make sure your body is set up for success- calories and hydration are two of the biggest players in the game.

Let’s break down why eating enough and staying hydrated can help increase milk supply — and how to do it right.

Milk Production is a Metabolic Workout

Producing breast milk takes a lot of energy. On average, your body burns an extra 500 calories a day just by making milk. That’s like going for a 45-minute run! Woah! So if you’re not getting enough calories or fluids, your body may not have the fuel it needs to keep up milk production. It’s kind of like trying to drive cross-country on an empty tank.
Your body prioritizes nourishing your baby, but if it’s running low on energy, milk supply can dip. Here’s how to make sure you’re eating enough:

✅ Eat Often

You don’t need fancy meals — just consistent fuel. Aim for 5-6 small meals/snacks a day to keep energy (and milk) flowing.

✅ Focus on Nutrient-Rich Foods

  • Good fats: Avocados, nuts, seeds, olive oil
  • Proteins: Eggs, dairy, meat, tofu, beans
  • Whole carbs: Oats, quinoa, brown rice, fruits

✅ Don’t Fear the Snack

Trail mix, granola bars, smoothies, nut butter on toast — these are easy, one-handed fuel-ups you can manage even when you’re running on baby snuggles and no sleep.

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💧 Why Hydration is Key

Milk is about 88% water, so staying hydrated is essential to keeping supply steady. Dehydration can make you feel tired, sluggish, and even reduce milk output.

✅ How Much Water Should You Drink?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but a good rule of thumb is to drink to thirst and aim for about 8–12 cups a day. More if you’re sweating, exercising, or in a hot climate.

✅ Pro Tips to Stay Hydrated:

  • Keep a big water bottle next to your pumping or nursing station.
  • Sip while you feed — make it a habit!
  • Don’t like plain water? Add a slice of lemon, cucumber, or berries to keep things interesting.
  • Diet Coke doesn’t count! Soda, Coffee, even Teas are not great ways to hydrate and can even lead to greater dehydration!

🚫 What to Avoid

  • Skipping meals: It’s easy to forget to eat, especially with a newborn. But skipping meals can tank your energy — and your supply.
  • Caffeine overload: A cup or two of coffee is totally fine, but too much caffeine can be dehydrating.
  • “Dieting” too soon: Trying to lose baby weight too quickly can lead to a drop in milk. Focus on nourishment first — your body will find its balance in time.

Find correlating factors

What’s a correlating factor? It’s a variable that shows a relationship with one or more other variables, indicating whether changes in one variable are associated with changes in others. Huh? Pay attention to a pump session that is greater or less than average, and see if there are any factors that might have correlated with this increase or decrease. For example, I found that after I ate a high-protein meal (like a cheeseburger,) I’d pump more milk. I found that after a day drinking barely anything, I’d pump less milk, booooo.

Every body is different — and while hydration and calories are two of the biggest contributors to milk supply, they aren’t the only factors. Hormones, stress, latch issues, and even pumping frequency all play a role. But making sure you’re eating and drinking enough is one of the easiest (and most empowering) steps you can take.

Milk-making mamas are athletes — your body is working hard to nourish your baby! Treat it with the care it deserves: eat enough, hydrate often, and rest when you can. The better you take care of yourself, the better you’ll feel — and the more your body can show up for your baby.

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#3- Pumping is EXPENSIVE! (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the “7 Things I Wish I Knew” at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #3: Pumping is expensive! I always heard mommas say that breastfeeding is free… but let me tell you- pumping is NOT! I wish I knew how expensive it would get and better yet, how to save money on the things I needed.

Whether you’re a working parent, dealing with latching issues, or simply want to share feeding responsibilities, pumping can be a crucial part of your journey — and a surprisingly expensive one. Let’s break down the true cost of pumping and how you can save money without sacrificing quality or comfort.

The Hidden Costs of Breast Pumping — and How to Save Money

The Real Costs of Breast Pumping

You’d think once you have a pump, you’re set, right? Not exactly. Here are some of the key expenses you might run into, and what I wish I knew about each:

1. The Breast Pump Itself

  • Price range: $50 to $500+
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- that most exclusive pumpers have more than one pump! Yes, many mommas can get a breast pump free through insurance but I didn’t realize how much trial and error there would be in exclusive pumping. I ended up with 4 pumps- 3 of which I purchased at full price. I even shelled out an extra $50 to upgrade my “free” insurance pump to a blue Spectra S1 (rechargeable) instead of the free pink version.

2. Replacement Parts

  • Valves, membranes, tubing, and flanges wear out quickly, especially if you pump often.
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- that I’d be trying out many flange sizes and styles and I experimented with the best fit and greatest comfort, so I’d be spending money on parts I didn’t even end up using very much!

3. Bottles & Storage Bags

  • Milk storage bags are single-use, adding up fast.
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- that I’d never end up using the larger baby bottles, as my babies never took more than a 5oz bottle could hold! I did spend a lot of money on storage bags for freezing, though… I found out quickly that the store brand from Target or Walmart are just fine and cheaper!

4. Accessories & Comfort Items

  • Pumping bras, nipple cream, cleaning wipes, sterilizers, cooler bags — the list grows.
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- that these aren’t luxuries, they were essentials for comfort and convenience since I spent months and months pumping! I also wish I put a lot of these things on my registry… but I didn’t realize I’d be exclusively pumping!

5. Food & Supplements

  • Breastfeeding consumes around 500 calories a day, so it’s important to eat extra protein and healthy fats. Many mommas also end up buying cookies and supplements in an attempt to boost supply
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- that supplements are not the best way to boost supply and can end up costing soooo much! And if you really want cookies, make them yourself! So much cheaper and tastier!

6. Time

  • Time is money, honey. The act of pumping — setting up, cleaning, storing, and feeding — takes time out of your day, often unpaid.
    >>> I WISH I KNEW- how to multitask to make the most of the time spent pumping. I wrote about many ways to multitask while pumping in THIS blog.

Tips to Save Money on Pumping

Luckily, there are smart ways to cut down on costs without cutting corners. I had to learn this over time… so go easy on yourself if you haven’t thought of some of these tricks on your own! Pumping is a labor of love — but it shouldn’t be a financial burden. The key is to plan ahead, know your options, and take advantage of resources available to you. Every penny saved is a little less stress and a little more support during an already demanding phase of parenthood.
>>> I’ll include my own advice to how to know whether to SAVE or SPLURGE on specific items for breast pumping!

✅ Check Your Insurance

  • In many countries (like the U.S. where I live), insurance plans are required to cover a breast pump. Contact your provider early in pregnancy to find out what’s covered- you might find different pump options covered through different companies, so don’t limit yourself!
    >>> SAVE- Take advantage of this! Even if you already have a pump, get that free insurance pump!
    >>>SPLURGE- If you’re going to exclusively pump, use the free pump through insurance to get a sturdy workhorse of a pump (like Spectra) and splurge on a more portable option to give yourself more freedom and flexibility.

✅ Go Manual

  • Manual pumps are inexpensive and useful for occasional pumping or on-the-go emergencies. You know I love love love my manual pump!
    >>> SAVE- Put that manual pump on your registry! I know many nursing mommas who still use one from time to time!
    >>>SPLURGE- If you already have an electric pump, get a manual, too! Believe me, you need a manual pump!

✅ Save on Replacement Parts

  • Amazon offers compatible replacement parts (flanges, tubes, valves, etc) for a lower price.
    >>> SAVE- Know what parts you’ll REALLY need to replace… the internet will tell you to replace everything. In my personal and professional opinion, unless something is damaged, only the valves need replacing regularly (monthly for EPers, 3 months for occasional pumpers)
    >>>SPLURGE- I personally loved my Lacteck silicone flanges, which were more expensive. It was SO worth it for comfort and durability- I never had to replace them!

✅ Buy or find free pumps and accessories

  • Many moms sell or giveaway lightly used pumps. If you buy one second-hand, replace all the parts that come into contact with milk (flanges, valves, tubing) for hygiene and efficiency.
    >>> SAVE- Check your local mom groups on Facebook to see if anyone has a pump or accessories to give you. Breastfeeding moms know how expensive pumping can be and are often eager to help out!
    >>>SPLURGE- While Facebook marketplace does not allow the sale of pumps, ebay does! If you can select a new one over a used one, that’s usually the way to go!

✅ Use Reusable Storage Bags

  • Some brands offer washable, reusable silicone storage bags. A bigger upfront investment, but they pay off in the long run.
    >>> SAVE- Honestly I love the cheap freezer bags from Walmart or Target, especially if you’re going to be a milk donor! (Actually, if you are donating milk to a local mom, THEY should buy your freezer bags for ya!)
    >>>SPLURGE- The price on some of these might look $$ at first, but they are reusable! The Ceres Chill Milkstache freezing system works well for this! I wish I had this myself!

✅ DIY Sterilizing

  • Instead of expensive sterilizing gadgets, sterilize pump parts by boiling them or using microwave-safe sterilizing bags (which are reusable up to 20+ times).
    >>> SAVE- I wish I got a microwave sterilizer like THIS instead of buying all those disposable bags! I now get this as presents for my pumping friends.
    >>>SPLURGE- My friend exclusively pumped for two babies and is SO glad she splurged on a countertop bottle washer and sterilizer! It wasn’t for me, but it was a game changer for her!

✅ Find Discount Codes

  • A simple google search will help you find discount codes for name-brand products!
    >>> SAVE- Here’s my list of discount codes to get started!

Melissa’s final thoughts:

>>> I’m glad I spent money on:

  • Multiple pumps! Here are the pumps I had and my thoughts on them.
  • Quality products like Lacteck flanges and Sarah Wells bags. The flanges were a total game changer for comfort, and the Sarah Wells bag was the treat I needed to keep me motivated!

>>> I regret spending money on:

  • My Elvie pump. I shelled out $500 out of pocket and barely used it. I wish I would have found a gently used one for far less $$$ or opted for a lower cost wearable.
  • So many bottles! My babies never even ended up using larger bottles!
  • Cookies and supplements! Supplements are a band-aid fix at best, and lactation cookies are cheaper and tastier if you make them yourself!
  • Baby shoes (Okay, this is not pumping-related, but why do people buy shoes for babies? So silly, LOL.)

Got more hacks or ways you saved money while pumping? Share them in the comments below — your tips could be a lifesaver for another parent!

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#2- Flange Sizing is SO Important! (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the 7 Things I Wish I Knew at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #2: Flange sizing is SO important! I talk about flange size a lot because it’s one of the most impactful parts of your pumping accessories, next to your pump itself.

Education about flange sizing has been historically… awful. How many of you were even sized at all? Or perhaps you were told that the 24mm that came with your pump is good enough? Or, more absurdly, were told to size UP to a 27 or 30 when the average mommas is more like a 17mm? Lately, though, there have been great strides toward not only figuring out the best way to size a momma for a well-fitting flange, but also to educate lactation professionals in best practices to use with their clients.

What I wish I knew about flange sizing

In the beginning, I didn’t know any better. I spent several months using the flange that came with my Spectra pump- 24mm. Pumping HURT and took forever! My poor areolas were red and painful. It hurt to shower and when clothing touched my nipples. I never got a second or third letdown. I didn’t know much about flange sizing at the time, but I could tell that mine were too large, so I sized down to a 21mm and spend the rest of my entire first pumping journey using 21mm. For my second baby, I had greater knowledge about flange-sizing but the recommendation at the time was to size 4mm larger than my nipples, so I used a 19mm hard flange or a 18mm Lacteck flange. The silicone Lacteck was a much better fit and felt so much more comfortable! Still, with what I know now, I wonder how much better I’d respond to a flange much closer to my nipple size of 15mm. *shrugs* You don’t know what you don’t know… you know?

Why is flange sizing so important?

Flange sizing can REALLY improve your breast pumping journey. A well-fitting flange can increase comfort, help you empty quicker, and ensure that you’re fully emptying each time you pump. I suggest waiting until AFTER birth to measure. Also, it’s a good idea to measure before pumping, not after. You want to measure the median thickness of your nipple, before it widens out into your areola. Then, select a flange size that is close to the size of your nipple, or just a little bit larger. (Example, if you measure 15mm, select a 15-16mm flange)

HOWEVER, flange sizing is SO MUCH MORE than “here, go measure yourself.” Mommas don’t usually know where/what to measure, and there are other factors that play into successful flange sizing than measurement alone. What are those factors?

  • FIT- Flange stays centered and does not gap or slide around
  • FEEL- Pumping is comfortable without pain to the nipple or areola
  • SPRAYS- Strong sprays of milk are a good sign it fits well (and good suction/settings on your pump).
  • EMPTYING FULLY- Meaning that milk is not left in areas of the breast/frequent clogs
  • EFFICIENCY- Sessions that take 15-30min max.

The Ultimate DIY Flange Sizing Guide

It can be difficult to measure yourself, so I created a guide to walk you through it. Access it HERE for free!

Read a more in-depth version of this blog post here: “How do I know what flange size to use?”

Confused? This is why a flange sizing appointment can be helpful! You don’t have to figure it all out on your own, momma! Get sized by a knowledgeable lactation professional.

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#1-Exclusive Pumping IS “a thing!” (“7 Things I Wish I Knew” Series)

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To celebrate Pump Momma Pump’s 7th Birthday, I’m sharing the “7 Things I Wish I Knew” at the start of my pumping journey. Here’s #1: I wish I knew… that Exclusive Pumping IS “a thing!” I wish I knew… That exclusive pumping IS breastfeeding! That exclusive pumping IS sustainable! That more people exclusively pump than you realize! That it can be an empowering CHOICE for your family!

Before giving birth for the first time, my husband and I took a series of prenatal classes offered by our hospital. One taught us about childbirth. One taught us about bringing home a newborn. And one, as you can guess… was on breastfeeding. I assumed I would breastfeed. That was our plan. In our limited experience at the time, we felt that the class “prepared” us for breastfeeding. Did they even MENTION pumping? One guess…. go ahead, guess…
Nope. We don’t even remember it being mentioned, let alone ever hearing the term “exclusive pumping.”

After giving birth a month early, my baby landed himself in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) because he didn’t have the stamina to nurse/transfer milk well from the breast. Over the first few days, I met with 3 lactation hospital counselors (that’s unheard of!) Guess how many of them helped me use a pump, flange-sized me, or even mentioned pumping as an option- 0. ZERO…. Zip. Nada. Zilch. Fast-forward to years later, this doesn’t surprise me at all because I hear it all the time. Why are hospital lactation consultants so bad? Aaaanyway… it was one amazing NICU nurse named Pat who taught me to use a breast pump, got me set up with a strict pumping schedule, and gave me the tough love I needed to stick to that schedule. I need to find Pat and give her a big ol’ hug or something. I owe a lot to that woman. She taught me that exclusive pumping is definitely “a thing” and definitely “a thing” that I could do for my baby when he was in the NICU and I was feeling so powerless.

Our NICU grad

Exclusive Pumping IS “a thing!”

Exclusive Pumping (often abbreviated as “EP”) is totally absolutely 100% a thing! Exclusive pumping means that you feed breastmilk by pumping and bottle-feeding instead of nursing/latching directly from the breast. Even if you are supplementing with formula, you’re still exclusively pumping. It’s how women all over the world feed their babies when their baby is unable to transfer milk well from the breast. When they are separated from their baby. When their baby is on a nursing strike. When they go back to work. And yeah…. When they choose to because it feels or works better for them. I have often felt like an outcast, being made to feel that EPing is somehow a lesser form of feeding that breastfeeding. But guess what, buttercup… exclusive pumping IS breastfeeding!

Exclusive Pumping IS breastfeeding!

When my baby was very young, my aunt asked me if I was breastfeeding. I replied that no, I was exclusively pumping. She put one hand on my forearm, looked me in the eyes, and said “Pumping is still breastfeeding, it’s just not nursing.” Life. Changing. Revelation!

  • Breastfeeding: n. the action of feeding a baby with milk from the breast. (Oxford English Dictionary)

If you ever encounter a scenario in which you need to educate someone about this topic, you can steal my aunt’s very simple reply- “Pumping is still breastfeeding, it’s just not nursing.”

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Exclusive Pumping IS sustainable!

I have heard SO many mommas tell me that their pediatrician (or mom, or cousin, or friend, or random person on the street with too many opinions) told them that they wouldn’t be able to exclusively pump because it isn’t sustainable. Why do they say this? Here’s my best guess:

  • Because EPing requires regular, frequent pumping right from birth to bring in the next stage of lactation, to build, and to maintain supply. That’s not always possible for some women, as life and other priorities get in the way.
  • Because everyone responds to breast pumps differently and it can take a lot of trial-and-error to find one that works well for you.
  • Because moms don’t always know how to find an effective flange size and pump settings to make the most out of their supply.
  • Because there isn’t enough support for exclusive pumping. In my formal CLC training, we used a textbook with 350 pages and only 15 of them mentioned pumping.
  • Because they know someone who couldn’t sustain an exclusive pumping journey and that’s all they’re going from.

So yes, barring any primary low supply issues (Primary low milk supply occurs when a mother’s body is unable to produce enough breast milk to meet her baby’s needs, even when breastfeeding practices are optimal.) with enough support and knowledge, exclusive pumping can absolutely be sustainable.

Meet the pumping mommas of the PMP community!

More people exclusively pump than you realize!

I remember standing in the kitchen at work, washing my pump parts. A table of coworkers were eating lunch when another walked into the kitchen and struck up a conversation with me about her current exclusive pumping journey. Two of the women eating shared that they had exclusively pumped for their babies, too. That’s FOUR women in one office kitchen that exclusively pumped- How cool is that? I got SO EXCITED as you can imagine! People aren’t used to someone cheering about EPing. Many view EPing as a failure in some way. The women didn’t all immediately high-five each other. I honestly think they thought I was weird. It wasn’t until I explained what I do here at Pump Momma Pump that they realized why i was so excited. I hope they left lunch feeling more “normal” and celebrated, than they did before lunch that day!

Meet the pumping mommas of the PMP community!

Over the past 7 years I have “met” thousands of mommas online from AROUND THE WORLD that exclusively pump! They’re out there, you just have to find them! I hope that you’ve found community here at Pump Momma Pump and feel as celebrated as my friends at work did that day at lunch! If I could give each of you a high five, I would!

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Packing a pumping bag for work

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Returning to work outside the home as a pumping momma can feel daunting. I’m here to help smooth this transition for you, momma! You’ll find lists for the absolute essentials, for leveling up your pumping game, and for extra items that are great to have on hand.
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(This post was written by Melissa with some help from the mommas over at Pump Momma Pump on Instagram… but if you’d get a kick out of the AI version, check out “Packing a pump bag for work:” Chat GPT version The pictures in that post are hilarious!)

My Number 1 tip? Pack the night before, if possible! Print out a checklist and put it in a page-protector sleeve if you can’t laminate it, then use a dry-erase marker each day, wiping clean each night! If you’d like my list, download my Printable Pump Bag Checklist.
Also, select a pump bag that does double-duty. I like carrying just one bag for my laptop, lunch, pump & accessories, as well as other “mom stuff” in the smallest pockets. (I usually throw in a wristlet with all my essentials like phone, credit cards, and chapstick, instead of carrying a separate purse.) I find that Sarah Wells bags work the best for this, and will be useful for years to come! I still use mine for work, travel, and days out with my young children.

Pumping at Work: The Essentials

Don’t forget the absolute essentials for pumping at work, momma! 

  • Protective Pump Bag- Select a bag that has padding/insulation to protect your investments- your pump and hard-earned liquid gold! Preferred product: Sarah Wells Bags Kelly, Fiona, or Abby, discount code PUMPMOMMAPUMP15
  • Pump & Accessories- It helps to make a list so you don’t forget the fiddly bits!
  • Storage for milk- How will you keep your milk cold at work and during transit?
  • Pumping bra- Some mommas like to wear a pumping bra all day, where others like to strap on one just to pump. Preferred product: Simple Wishes Hands-Free Adjustable discount code PMP15 or Kindred Bravely discount code PMP15
  • Wipes- Keep it clean with regular and/or pumping wipes
  • Ice pack- Have extras in your freezer incase you forget to unpack and freeze one!
  • Washing stuff- If you wash your pump parts at work, bring a travel bottle brush, drying rack, and bottle soap! Yes they all come in travel-friendly sizes!

Pumping at Work- Level Up

Feelin extra? Level up your pumping game with these game-changers! 

  • Designer pump bag- There are many companies offering stylish pump bags- express yourself while you… express yourself! Preferred Product- Mimi & Pal Radley bag discount code PUMPMOMMAPUMP10
  • Portable or Wearable pump- Some mommas appreciate having a portable or wearable pump to offer greater flexibility and freedom Preferred Products- Pumpables Genie Advanced discount code PMP10, Baby Buddha breastpump discount code PUMPMOMMA
  • Milk cooler- Keep that milk cold until you get it safely home Preferred Products- CeresChill OG Chiller discount code PUMPITUP, MomCozy milk cooler
  • Wet bag- Great for storing pump accessories, especially if you do the fridge hack during work
  • Headphones or airpods- For pleasant distraction and a uplifted mood
  • Flange lubrication- Pump in comfort by lubricating your flanges (I suggest coconut oil, personally and professionally) 
  • Entertainment- Get that milk flowing as you take some time for yourself! Catch up on a favorite show, read, listen to music, or scroll instagram

Pumping at Work- Extras

These helpful extras were suggested by the mommas at Pump Momma Pump to help pumping at work go extra smoothly! 

  • Spare pump to keep at work- If you have a spare pump, that’s one less thing to take back and forth every day. A manual pump kept at work is great incase you forget your pump or it runs out of battery. Preferred product: Medela Harmony manual pump
  • Extra parts- Have an extra set of all your pump accessories? Keep them at work in case you ever forget anything!
  • Extra baggies- Always a good idea to keep extra milk baggies at work.
  • Charging cords- A charging cord for your pump and/or phone may come in handy.
  • Spare shirt- Uh oh, spilled milk stains and stinks! Bring along a spare shirt. 
  • Towel or paper towels- To keep your area clean, especially for drips and spills.
  • Snack and hydration- Increasing calories and staying hydrated supports lactation!

I know it’s a lot, momma. The first few days back to work might be a little overwhelming and perhaps a little emotional. I know because I’ve been there myself, twice. Know that you’re capable. You’re a problem-solver. You’re strong and resilient. You got this.

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“Packing a Pump Bag for Work” Chat GPT Version

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I asked Chat GPT (Artificial Intelligence software) to write a blog post with advice and pictures for packing a pump bag. The results weren’t what I expected…

They were pretty great! I didn’t expect that! I expected the most generic list, with robotic language and incorrect information… but I got a compassionate, thoughtful list, complete with very accurate advice for a momma’s return to work! The pictures, however…. *shakes head and laughs* were another story. They cracked me up! I hope you enjoy the results.

*I have included the full results from Chat GTP below, complete with the AI generated images. Any of my own words have been added in parenthesis with PMP- in front. My own version of this blog is coming soon, so keep an eye out!*

*AI generated image* PMP- Apparently all moms returning to work are thin
white women with corporate jobs who take their kids to work?!

Title: Packing a Pumping Bag for Work: A Breastfeeding Mom’s Guide

Going back to work as a breastfeeding mom can be a challenging transition, but being well-prepared with a properly packed pumping bag can make the experience smoother and more manageable. Whether you’re a first-time mom or just need a refresher, this guide will help ensure you have everything you need for a successful pumping session at work. (PMP- Solid start, Chat GPT, let’s see what ya got!)

Essential Items for Your Pumping Bag

  1. Breast Pump and Accessories
    Make sure your pump is fully charged or has a power adapter if it requires an outlet. Don’t forget essential parts such as flanges, tubing, valves, and membranes. (PMP- way to go Chat GPT! Excellent advice and terminology!)
  2. Breast Milk Storage Bags or Bottles
    Bring enough storage containers to accommodate the amount of milk you plan to pump. Labeling them with the date can help with organization and freshness.
  3. A Small Cooler with Ice Packs
    Keeping your milk cold is essential, especially if you don’t have access to a refrigerator at work. An insulated cooler with ice packs will do the job. (PMP- another thumbs up)
  4. Hands-Free Pumping Bra
    A hands-free bra allows you to multitask while pumping, making the process more convenient and comfortable.
  5. Cleaning Supplies
    Bring pump wipes or a small bottle of dish soap and a brush if you need to wash your pump parts at work. Some moms also bring a microwave steam sterilizer bag for quick cleaning. (PMP- So far this is pretty darn close to what I would have written myself!)
  6. Nursing Pads and Extra Clothes
    Leaks happen! Pack extra nursing pads and a backup shirt just in case. (PMP- Many moms on Instagram also suggested bringing an extra shirt and hand towel!)
  7. Snacks and Water
    Pumping can be dehydrating and energy-draining. Keeping a water bottle and some healthy snacks in your bag will help maintain your energy levels. (PMP- Yessssss!)
  8. A Comfortable Cover (Optional)
    If you prefer privacy while pumping, a nursing cover or lightweight scarf can be helpful, especially if you share a space. (PMP- Legally, your work must provide a private space to pump!)
  9. A Notebook or Pumping App
    Keeping track of your pumping schedule, milk output, and reminders for cleaning and storage can be helpful.
*AI generated image* PMP- Dyyyying laughing at this pumping bag. Note the huge haakaa style pump with tube leading to nowhere. Anything else crack you up?
*AI generated image* PMP- The baby on the windowsill! …And yet another thin Caucasian model with an office job.

Bonus Tips for a Smooth Pumping Experience

  • Create a Pumping Schedule: Try to pump at the same times each day to maintain your milk supply. (PMP- Again, way to go Chat GPT!)
  • Have a Backup Plan: Keep an extra set of pump parts at work in case you forget something.
  • Stay Relaxed: Listening to music, looking at pictures of your baby, or practicing deep breathing can help with milk letdown. (PMP- Okay I am beginning to think they borrowed some of this from my website at this point.)
  • Advocate for Your Needs: Communicate with your employer about your pumping needs and ensure you have a comfortable, private space to express milk. (PMP- Yesssssss!)
*AI generated image* (PMP- Just… wat. Gotta get me one of those pump/cooler hybrids! LOL)
*AI generated image* PMP- This is what I got when I requested that the mom be “blue collar.” Way to take me literally! (Also, I don’t think this is Osha compliant, LOL)

Packing a well-stocked pumping bag will set you up for a successful return to work while continuing your breastfeeding journey. With the right preparation, you can make pumping at work a seamless part of your daily routine. You’ve got this, mama! (PMP- VERY happy with this blog post, Chat GPT! The photos however…. could use some work. LOL)

*AI generated image* PMP- *shakes head*…. AI is creepy, man.
Also, note the bottle/pump combo… ?!
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Hot or Cold for Mastitis?

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You might be hearing conflicting advice for treating clogged ducts or mastitis. You might even be hearing the phrase “new protocol/protocol 38” but what is this new protocol for mastitis, and how does it apply to pumping mommas?

First of all, what in the world is this creepy image. anyway? For those of you who are old enough, or have parents that like to frighten you around the holidays, you might recognize “HeatMiser” and “SnowMiser” from “The Year Without Santa Claus.” (Weird movie, do not recommend) It’s the first image I thought of when I opened up my laptop to write this post. The battle between heat and cold…. that’s what’s been going on for mastitis treatment. Should you apply heat, vibration, and massage? Or should you ice it and take medication? It’s truly been a battle of heat vs. cold.

The old advice: HEAT

The solution was once to use heat packs, vigorous massage, and vibration to treat clogged ducts and mastitis. This is no longer recommended. We now know that a “clogged” duct is not a solid piece of milk we must shove through. What is really happening, is that the duct has become inflamed and has narrowed, not allowing as much milk through. With the knowledge we have regarding inflammation, we know that HEAT and massage may make inflammation worse, not better.

The new advice: COLD

So how do we treat an inflamed milk duct? With ice and ibuprofen! Applying COLD to the breast can reduce inflammation, allowing milk to flow freely from the duct. Taking a nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drug (abbreviated as NSAID) like ibuprofen may also help. (Tylenol/acetaminophen is NOT an NSAID, so opt for Advil/ibuprofen instead.) An ice pack designed for the breast, like this one by Lansinoh, or this multi-pack which can be used of little kid boo-boos long after breastfeeding!. You can also use a frozen bag of peas, which flexes nicely around the breast. Light, lymphatic massage may also be helpful, but refrain from applying vibration/vigorous massage to the affected area. And because I know you will ask… Yes, you can still feed baby your milk when you’re taking an NSAID anti-inflammatory medication or an antibiotic.

How do you know if you have mastitis?

The updated 2022 Protocol #36 guidelines from the Academy of Breastfeeding Medicine (ABM) published in May 2022 now assert that mastitis should be considered “a spectrum of conditions”, ranging from oversupply (hyperlactation) to inflammation, bacterial infection and abscess. LactApp covers it pretty succinctly in their post HERE .  Mastitis can be:

  • Ductile narrowing/inflammation
  • Inflammatory mastitis (what we think of as unresolved “clogged ducts”)
  • Bacterial mastitis caused by Staphylococcus and Streptococcus
  • Phlegmon- suspected when mastitis worsens as a firm, mass without fluctuance
  • Abscess: An accumulation of infected fluid that needs to be drained
  • Infected galactocele- a significant volume of obstructed milk accumulates in a cyst-like cavity

… in easy-to-understand terms, please?
Contact your doctor if you are experiencing:

  • Prolonged unresolved clogs, or hard areas of the breast that don’t seem to be emptying when you nurse or pump
  • Redness of the breast (With darker pigmented skin, this may appear darker or a reddish-brown hue)
  • Burning sensation in the breast
  • Areas of the breast that are painful or warm to the touch
  • Any of these symptoms accompanied by fever and flu-like symptoms

Why has my milk supply gone down?

It’s normal to see a reduction in milk supply after a prolonged clogged duct or mastitis. Why? It’s actually your body trying to protect you! If milk has not be adequately emptied from one breast, it causes internal pressure inside the milk-making cells of that breast. This sends signals to your body to slow down production in that breast. These protective signals result in less milk being produced. For some mommas, this drop in supply is temporary. When the milk starts flowing again, the body often sends the message- “okay! milk is being removed, make more!” But sometimes that breast will remain at a lower output. This is why dealing with “clogs” as soon as possible is so important!

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Implications for exclusive pumpers

The initial advice “not to pump” following the new protocol has confused exclusive pumpers (mommas who pump exclusively and do not latch baby at the breast). The protocol advises you to nurse on demand and not excessively pump. So, for exclusive pumpers, YES you’ll need to pump. I advise you to pump as you would normally pump- not longer or more often. Excessive pumping can lead to an upregulation of milk and a continued cycle of mastitis. Many mommas find that switching to a manual pump gives you more control and can help finesse the clog out. My advice regarding “clogged ducts” tailored for exclusive pumpers can be found HERE.

The short version:

In summary… The ABM protocol change in 2022 gave us a lot of think about, and in many ways, completely changes the way we treat clogs and mastitis. What we used to think of as a “clogged duct” is actually ductile narrowing brought on my inflammation. Mastitis is a spectrum of conditions in the breast, from inflammation which can be treated at home with ice and ibuprofen, to infection, which needs medical attention. Avoid intense massage and vibration. Choose a cold compress over a hot one. Nursing mothers should keep feeding on demand without adding additional pumping sessions. Exclusive pumpers are encouraged to stick to your pumping schedule as much as possible. Manual pumping or hand-expression is an excellent alternative in both cases.

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*This post is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult your medical provider.

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Breast Capacity and Your “Magic Number”

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Did you know that breast size does not determine how much milk you can hold? Breast capacity varies from person to person, no matter if you are a A-cup or an E-cup! Exclusive pumpers with large capacity may be able to maintain a full milk supply with fewer pumps per day, while a momma with a smaller capacity may need to remain pumping frequently. This is called the “magic number.” Read on to find out more!

Breast capacity

CAPACITY is the term we use for how much milk your breast can hold at one time. Women with higher capacity breasts are able to pump fewer times per day than a woman with lower capacity. What determines capacity? Alveolar cells are the milk-making cells in grape-like sacs called mammary alveoli inside your breasts. So think of it as some mommas having bigger bunches of grapes than other mommas. (I love a good visual!) Breast capacity can increase with subsequent births.

As an exclusive pumper, The momma with high capacity could hit that 30 ounce-per-day goal with fewer sessions than a momma who needs to pump 8+ sessions a day to make what their baby needs. Does that make sense?

EVERY momma should empty her breasts regularly right after birth to establish supply, either through nursing or pumping. But a momma with a higher capacity could afford to eventually pump fewer times a day than a momma who needs to keep up that frequent schedule. That’s the “magic number.” How do you know your capacity/magic number?! You don’t, right away. When you begin to go longer between sessions you begin to find out how much you can hold. See more about “magic number” below.

*Note about IGT and low milk supply*

Some mommas who face primary low supply might be dealing with IGT, or “Insufficient Glandular Tissue” which means that they lack the anatomical space to hold milk within their breasts. Mommas with IGT often did not see a change in breast size during pregnancy or after birth. Having a low milk supply may mean that even with frequent pumping, you may not reach or maintain the level of milk your baby takes in a day. As always, working with a knowledgeable lactation professional is recommended. In this case, I suggest Kaia Lacey, CLC from @lowsupplymom and lowsupplymom.com

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Regulating milk supply

Right after birth, it’s your job as an exclusive pumper to tell your body how much milk you need. This is why we suggest pumping every 3 hours, around the clock, to build your milk supply. The demand for milk determines how much milk your body will create. Frequent removal of milk by baby or breast pump builds supply. Any drastic changes in the weeks after birth can lead to secondary low supply. What is a “drastic change?” As a nursing mommas, this can mean being separated from a nursing infant and not pumping instead. As an exclusive pumping momma, this can mean dropping down to 4 pumps per day instead of the recommended 8, within the first 2 months. By 8-12 weeks, your body will have “regulated” which means that you could begin to drop pumping sessions and your milk supply may not drastically change. More on milk supply HERE.

How will you know you’ve regulated supply? The engorgement phase will be long over, but now your breasts may not feel as full or leaky. This change may be gradual over the course of the first weeks after birth. Don’t worry, you’re still making milk! Think of lactation like a river, not like a pond that empties out completely and needs to completely refill. Your body may show signs of getting used to a schedule, feeling a letdown or fullness when it’s time to pump/feed. Another important sign for exclusive pumpers, is that they may be able to drop a pump session or two and still make around the same total ounces per day.

It’s important to pay attention to daily total ounces because milk supply can fluctuate greatly during the day. You might have noticed your milk production being higher in the early morning and lower in the evening. That’s natural! Prolactin (milk-making hormone) peaks and dips throughout a daily cycle.

Magic number

OKAY MOMMAS. If my suggested schedule confused you, you’re not alone. It’s actually pretty impossible to predict what schedule will work for you, because every single momma is different. That’s where the 🔮MAGIC NUMBER🔮 comes into play.
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What is the MAGIC NUMBER?! It’s the number of times a day you’ll need to pump to keep up your supply.
🔮Exclusive pumpers should begin by pumping at least 8x day, which is every 3 hours around the clock.
🔮By 2-3 months, milk supply regulates, which means that some mothers can begin spacing out the time between pump sessions and still make enough daily to feed their baby
🔮 Every woman has a different breast capacity, which means how much milk can be held at one time- so some mothers can pump fewer times a day and still make enough milk.
🔮MAGIC NUMBER- the number of pumping sessions that still give you a full supply
🔮What happens if you drop a session and decrease output too much? Add that session back in as soon as you experience that drop! (If you’re good at 6 pumps per day but 5 pumps doesn’t give you enough milk, then you know 6 is YOUR magic number.)
🔮Stick with that number of pumps per day until you’re ready to wean!

What IS “full supply?” A full milk supply, or what we EPers call being a “just enougher” is when you make as much milk as baby drinks. The goal I use as a reference is usually around 30 ounces because the average intake for an infant under 1 is around 25-35 ounces a day. Babies generally plateau out at 30 ounces or so by the time they are 1-2months old and stick with that daily total until they are closer to 1 year old and are eating more solid meals.

Does the magic number just apply to exclusive pumpers? No! It can also help when returning to work after maternity leave. Once you regulate supply, you take note that your baby nurses 7 times a day. That means when you are gone at work, it will be important to pump the same number of times you would have nursed during that time period. So, if you pump 3 times at work, expect to nurse 4 times at home.

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