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My Manual Pump Hurts… Am I Doing It Right?

A manual breast pump or “hand pump” can be hugely beneficial to your breastfeeding journey. For some mommas, though, it can cause discomfort or pain. If this sounds like you, let’s try to fix that and get you pumping in comfort!

First of all, if you don’t know if a manual pump can benefit YOU, I suggest reading my “You Need A Manual Pump” blog post for all the reasons I personally love my manual pump and how it can be a valuable (and inexpensive!) addition to your pump collection.

Assembling your manual pump

To ensure that your pump is in good, working condition, carefully clean, dry, and assemble it. It might not be as intuitive as it seems! (And did you even know the valve and membrane needs to face to the side? Mind blown, right?)

How to use your manual pump

In this video, I go over the simple way to operate the Medela Harmony manual pump as well as the Lansinoh manual pump. Other pumps, like Dr Brown’s, are similar to the Lansinoh in operation- Just do shallow, quick sucks to initiate your letdown, and then switch to slower, deeper squeezes of the handle for expression.


Troubleshooting your manual pump:

Believe me, as a lactation counselor who specializes in all things pumping related, I hear it all! I’ve taken some of the top complaints and give you easy solutions to troubleshoot your manual pump issues. Remember, there are NO stupid questions… you don’t know what you don’t know! You know?

“I just don’t respond to a manual pump”

First of all, know that it is true that different women’s bodies respond differently to various pumps. That being said… are you doing it right? Take a minute to review the instructional video above and give it another try! Be patient with the letdown mode, using very shallow very quick squeezes of the handle until you either see or feel your letdown, when the milk starts flowing. Some mommas describe their letdown as slightly painful pins and needles, whereas others feel a fullness, and others still do not feel their letdown at all. Next, use slow squeezes of the handle, massaging/gently compressing the breast with your free hand. The compression may encourage your body to respond!

“My manual pump is losing suction!”

First, check that all parts and present and accounted for, and assembled correctly. My assembly video above should help with that. If the valve and membrane are not present, there will be no suction. Take the handle off and make sure the little o-ring is present and hasn’t fallen off, which can also affect suction. Make sure the plastic part of the handle is fully connected to the squishy part, pressed in snugly. You can also try replacing the white flappy membrane, especially if you use the pump heavily. Make sure no cloth is caught between the flange and your breast, breaking suction. If you lose suction mid-session, check that your valve and membrane are still attached and haven’t fallen off into your milk. Reposition the flange on your breast, centering your nipple in the flange tunnel, and try again.

“It hurts to use my manual pump”

A few things can be done about this. The first is to ensure you have the proper flange size. (You can size yourself with my DIY Flange Sizing Guide!) Yes, this matters for manual pumps, too! Once you find the correct size, you should use the same size for your electric and your manual pump. You might find a silicone flange more comfortable. Make sure you aren’t squeezing the handle with too much force, or too quickly. Be careful not to overdo it- listen to your body and adjust the strength of suction as needed. Pain mid-session? Remove the flange from your breast and reposition it. Something as little as that has helped me in the past! Use lubrication, like a flange spray or a dab of food-grade coconut oil applied to your nipple/areola with a clean finger before pumping.


“I don’t get as much from my manual pump!”

First, make sure you are using the correct size flange. This can make a huge difference! Review all the videos here and from my other blog post about manual pumps to make sure you’re using it effectively. Don’t just trust me, search your brand pump on YouTube and see if others have created helpful videos on how to use your pump. My biggest piece of advice for this issue is to apply gentle but steady compression with your free hand while pumping. This video should help!


“My wrists really hurt after using my manual pump”

Heavy use of a manual pump can result in sore hands or wrists. Try operating the pump with your other hand. Do wrist exercises. Massage your forearms to improve blood flow to your wrist and fingers and reduce inflammation. If you feel that you’ve really injured your wrists, apply ice, take an anti-inflammatory medication, and call your healthcare provider. For more information on repetitive strain injuries related to breastfeeding, read this article from Today’s Parent.

“My back/neck hurt while pumping”

Look at your posture. Are you all hunched over with little hands up near your chest like a T-Rex? Stand up and do some stretches. Then, find a comfortable seat on a chair or couch. Place a pillow behind just your upper back. This way you feel like you can relax, but are still supported in the upright position. Avoid hunching over and staring at your bottle as you operate your manual pump.


“I can’t find different flange sizes for my manual pump”

If you have a Medela Harmony, there aren’t special flanges just for the Harmony- Any Medela flange will fit, even compatible off-brand ones on Amazon. Same thing goes for the Lansinoh manual pump- Any Lansinoh or compatible off-brand flanges will work. If you have a Dr Brown’s manual pump, you may need a flange insert in your correct size. Phillips Avent and Tommee Tippee manual pumps come with a soft silicone shield which may not come in a wide variety of sizes, but you can check with the manufacturer.

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You Need A Manual Pump

If you’re a breastfeeding momma, you need a manual pump. Period. I’m looking at you, nursing momma, and you, back-to-work momma, and definitely positively absolutely you, exclusive pumping momma! Sure, there are a lot of pumps that would be nice to have… but this one is a must. And here’s why…

Why get a manual pump???

A manual pumps is an essential tool for breastfeeding mommas. I’ll list out the reasons first, and then elaborate on each one below.

  • Freedom!
  • Small and quiet
  • Great for extracting colostrum
  • Clogged duct buster
  • Mini sessions
  • Different stimulation/variable speed
  • Pump one-handed
  • Helps with weaning from the pump

Freedom! Switch it up with a manual pump!

I felt much less controlled by my pumping schedule when I started taking my manual pump on-the-go with me. That way, if I couldn’t get home in time to pump, I had my hand pump with me! I’ve pumped so many many places, whether it was the mother’s room at Target, family gatherings, county fairs, or even my minster’s office! I could grab it on my way out the door and pump in the car (passenger) without having to wait to leave until after my pumping session. I could duck out of the room to pump quickly at events without having to lug everything and hook up to tubes and stuff.
Are you getting mentally drained by hooking all your pumping stuff and tubes up every time? Switch it up! Use this pump for a session to switch things up. Mentally, it just feels different!

Pumping on a road trip with my 3-month old

Manual pumps are small and quiet

This pump is so small that it fits effortlessly into my diaper bag or purse. I find that it’s much less awkward to pump in front of family or friends, than hooking up to something with tubes coming out of you. (I liked to wear a loose scarf overtop for modesty.) It’s nearly silent, too! The sound of the milk hitting the bottles is the loudest part about it! I’ve even used on on a zoom call and no one knew it!

Manual pumps are great at extracting colostrum

Colostrum is a sticky subject. Scenario: You just had a baby yesterday but nothing is coming out when you pump! A manual pump (or hand expressing) can often get that thick colostrum out better than your electric pump if baby can’t latch!

Pumping on the day I gave birth to my second baby- manual pumps work best for colostrum!

Manual pumps are great for busting clogs!

These pump are GREAT for clogged ducts because you can angle it toward the clog, and use the other hand to massage out the clog, and use deep slow squeezes of the handle to extract the milk! (Keep in mind that some ‘clogs’ are due to inadequate removal of milk, and some are from inflammation. Read more on that topic HERE.)

Great as a back-up pump

Storm season coming, with frequent power outages? Is your pump out of batteries? Are you away from an electrical outlet? Did you forget your electric pump when you left your work? Having a manual pump can really save the day!

Do a mini-session with a manual!

Don’t have time to strap everything on for a full pumping session? Get a mini-session in with a manual pump! A short pumping session is better than no pumping session, and there’s no huge set up tear down process with a little manual pump!

Pumping at the beach

A manual pump has different stimulation/variable speed

Different bodies responds differently to different pumps. You may respond really well to a manual pump! I know a few exclusive pumpers who use a manual exclusively! Also, YOU control the speed! You can go reaaalllly slow if you need that kind of suction speed (like me!) or any other speed that your body needs.

Pump one-handed!

Have a clingy baby? Manual pumps only take one hand! Comfort baby on the other side. You can even side-carry with a baby carrier and pump at the same time!

Taking a break to pump on Thanksgiving
with my 5-month old son

Weaning helper

If you are in the process of weaning and you are feeling so engorged but but don’t want to fully empty your breasts… Use a manual pump to relieve yourself while trying to wean. Use it just enough to relieve the pain, it will not trigger your body to produce more milk.

Pump Momma Pump’s favorite manual pump: the Medela Harmony

My love for the Medela Harmony knows no bounds, and NO they aren’t paying me to say that! (But they should. Anyone know a rep from Medela? LOL) I love the dual-mode handle shown in my video below. It’s so lightweight and there’s not a lot to clean!

Available HERE on Amazon, or in a Target or Walmart near you! (Amazon usually has the best price, in my experience)

How to use your manual pump

You might be scrolling through this post thinking… well that’s all well and good for some mommas, but I could never get my manual pump to work for me! Check out the quick tutorial below and practice with your pump! There’s a little bit of a learning curve, but once you know how to use it, you just might fall in love, too! Remember, start out quick for letdown, then go slow for expression.

Troubleshooting your Medela Harmony

Has your pump suddenly lost suction? Take it completely apart and make sure it’s set up correctly. Make sure your valve and membrane is snugly attached It’s a good idea to have extra white flappy membranes on hand to replace if it becomes worn out. Check that your diaphram stem still has a tiny white o-ring on it. (They can fall off over time especially with an older or well-loved pump.) Are you pressing down too swiftly during pumping? Try a long, slooow squeeze of the handle instead.

What about a haakaa?

Ah the Haakaa. Here is where the Haakaa company and I never agree- I say that the Haakaa is NOT a pump, in the truest sense. (Though the company would state that they are indeed a pump.) I say this because the Haakaa creates a continuous suck, not a suck-and-release cycle like a traditional “pump” or like a nursing baby’s suck.
Do I think this silicone suction style pump has its place in a breastfeeding momma’s life? Sure! They are GREAT for collecting milk on the side not currently being nursed on. They are also great for collecting milk on the opposite breast when a momma is using a manual pump. Would I use one as a replacement for a traditional electric, rechargeable, or even manual pump? I would not.

Image from Haakaa UAE

Manual Pump FAQs:

  • I usually pump for 15 minutes. Do I have to pump each breast with my manual pump for 15 min each? Nope! You don’t time a manual pump… you just pump until empty. When you see milk start to stop, lightly compress the breast with the opposite hand to ensure that you are emptying completely.
  • Milk is leaking from my other breast while I pump! Simply stuff a napkin or breast pad in there, or attach a haakaa or milk collector.
  • Can I use the fridge hack with this pump? Sure! (If you are comfortable with that method.) After pumping, wipe the inside of your flange with a medela wipe (or cottonelle, nothing with harsh chemicals/soaps.) Empty the milk into a feeding or storage bottle, reattach connector/flange to pumping bottle, and store in the fridge until the next time you pump! Do not rinse.
  • What do I have to wash? Everything that touches milk: Bottle, valve, connector. You don’t have to wash the handle and the disphram thingie under the handle.
  • Can I use two manual pumps at the same time? Techically, yes. I have a good friend who does. I ‘ve never even tried that sorcery! Haha!
  • My body just doesn’t respond to a manual pump. Are you using it correctly? Be sure to watch my demo video from today’s blog post! There are more demos in my manual pump highlight on Instagram.
  • Why did I completely lose suction? Take your pump apart. On the underside of the handle there is a stem with a tiny white o-ring on it. Is that missing? Is your yellow and white vale-and-membrane attached securely?
  • Do I turn the handle around to use the small side? Nope! As you saw in my video, it is designed to use at the top of your pump, to achieve small, quick fluttery sucks that stimulate your milk-ejection reflex or “let-down.”
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My 4 Favorite Pumps (and why you’ll want them all!)

What’s YOUR favorite pump? Why do you love it?
* TELL US IN THE COMMENTS, PLEASE! We want to know! *

Every momma’s body responds differently to different breast pumps, so if you can, it’s best to try out more than one type/style of pump. We all have different lifestyles as well, and that means one style of pump might work better than another, and having a variety of pumps means you are better supported for the variation in your own life.
Here are the 4 breast pumps I used the most during nearly two years of exclusive pumping. (yes I used more pumps than this, lol)

First, let’s talk some basics about different kinds of breast pumps. You might have heard the terms “Hospital Grade” or “Primary/Secondary” to describe types of pumps. These are often pretty confusing terms, especially when they are thrown around as much as they are.

What does “Hospital Grade” even mean?

If you’ve used a breast pump in a hospital, it’s most likely been the Medela Symphony or the Ameda Platinum. These are highly expensive pumps designed to withstand multiple users. While some are rentable, mommas usually don’t purchase them for home use. When companies (like Spectra or Pumpables) use this term for marketing, they are saying that the pump has a stronger, more durable motor for frequent use, like exclusive pumping. These pumps are often also “closed system” which means that a barrier exists so milk does not get inside the pump, which means it’s okay for multiple users.

What about “Primary/Secondary” pumps?

A primary pump should be a strong, durable pump that your body responds well to (empties you fully and efficiently, helping to build and protect your supply.) If you are exclusively pumping, meaning using a pump up to 8+ times a day instead of nursing) you’ll want a good primary pump. A secondary pump usually has a weaker motor, and your body might not respond as well to it, so it might not empty you as well. Secondary pumps should be used less frequently, especially for exclusive pumpers.

I bet you’re looking for brand names for primary and secondary pumps, right? The thing is… what works well for one momma may not work as well for another. Here’s an example: Generally, a pump like Spectra S1/2 would be a primary pump, whereas a wearable like Elvie or MomCozy would be a secondary pump. However, I’ve known mommas to not respond to a Spectra, however, and only use an Elvie. Some mommas only use manual pumps instead of electric, and I’ve even known a few to prefer hand-expressing to any kind of pump at all!

Okay Melissa, but what are YOUR favorite pumps? Here’s my list:
*Ranked in order of how often I used them*

1) Electric Pump (Spectra)

Ah my trusty double-electric pump. (“Double” just means you can pump both breasts at once.) As an exclusive pumper, it was essential to have a quality pump that my body responded well to. Got a used one to keep at work, too. Spectra S1 was my pump of choice but Motif makes a similar one and many brands are stepping up the quality of their electric pumps, so read reviews!

Pros of a double electric pump:

  • They are usually “hospital grade” in stregth, withstanding heavy use
  • They are usually closed-system so they can be safe for second-hand use
  • They are usually available through insurance
  • Their parts are usually easier to find, even at stores like Target
  • Amazon carries generic versions of their accessories so you can find your ideal flange size that might not be available from the manufacturer

Cons of a double electric pump

  • They can be expensive, out of pocket
  • Many are physically larger or heavier
  • Some models need to remain plugged into a wall
  • It can be more difficult to multitask

2) Manual Pump (Medela)

Total game changer for me- I threw it in my diaper bag and pumped everywhere! SO quick and easy with minimal clean-up. I no longer felt the need to rush home to pump. I pumped a lot in the car, and also used it to relieve clogs. I used the Medela Harmony but Lansinoh has a decent one, too

Proc of a manual pump:

  • Super affordable
  • Small and lightweight
  • Can be quicker if you get good at it
  • You control the speed and suction
  • Great to use for “mini sessions” or to relieve yourself
  • Can be off-centered to relieve clogged ducts!

Cons of a manual pump:

  • Can only pump one breast at a time
  • Hard on the hands, if used frequently
  • There’s a bit of a learning curve, so watch demo videos!

3) Portable Pump (Baby Buddha)

I am a major multitasking momma so having a portable pump REALLY helped around the house. I’ve done just about everything while pumping! I used the Baby Buddha with my Spectra and Lacteck accessories- when you know what you like, stick with it- most pumps are hack-able. The Pumpables Genie Advanced is a great portable option, too.

Pros of a portable pump

  • So much freedom to multitask!
  • Lightweight, can be worn via lanyard or clip
  • Usually more affordable

Cons of a portable pump

  • Many would be considered “secondary pumps” for infrequent use
  • More difficult to find replacement parts
  • Often smaller variety of flange sizes

4) Wearable Pump (Elvie)

Honestly this was my biggest splurge and not really worth it by the time I got it. YES I was able to pump in restaurants, while shopping, at the movies, etc…. but not everyone needs to be that discrete. If you want a nearly silent pump, spring for the Elvie… if you just want a wearable, MomCozy makes great, more affordable options that are a tad louder. 

Pros of a wearable pump:

  • Super discrete
  • Can often pump unnoticed in public
  • Very easy to multitask while pumping

Cons of a wearable pump

  • More quiet versions are pricey
  • Adds volume to bustline
  • Tends to empty less fully
  • Should be reserved for a secondary pump
  • Not great for mommas with oversupply, as bottles hold 4-6 ounces each
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What’s YOUR favorite pump and why do you love it so muchComment below!

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